LostInLimbo Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 I Have been single for a few months, my ex had left me a few times, cheated on me and lied to me, but we always seemed to get back, for good or bad, but the 3rd time she left me, I had no fight left in me, we tried for a couple of weeks and she textd me to say it was done. I moved on, not to someone else, just to take time, I started seeing someone, ex wouldn't have had a clue, and wanted that way, she was continuesly texting me everyday til I finally broke NC and said its gotta stop ( I always would welcome her back with open arms) I asked her what she wanted from me, she said she missed talking and texting me, but will stop messaging me, I did wish her well as she did to me. I have received a few messages since but haven't in a week or so, not sure if it was cause I replied to them, she had textd me saying don't open any emails from me, its a virus and I still continue to get them (emails) from her nearly everyday or a few in between (not sure why that is happening or if thats her way of letting me know she is still around without having to text me) but still won't open them, just delete them. Sorry, long winded here, but is it normal to compare the one your seeing to the one who dumped you and treated you like crap..I have no plans on going back, just confused...... Any Advice? LiL
fallendisguise Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 First of all, good for you for moving on! I think it is normal to notice the differences between your current relationship and your last, especially when there isn't a lot of time between the two. Just remember that each relationship is different. However, you do need to give yourself time to get over the previous before you're able to fully give yourself to the next.
Author LostInLimbo Posted August 12, 2009 Author Posted August 12, 2009 First of all, good for you for moving on! I think it is normal to notice the differences between your current relationship and your last, especially when there isn't a lot of time between the two. Just remember that each relationship is different. However, you do need to give yourself time to get over the previous before you're able to fully give yourself to the next. Thnx FD
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