spiraling downward Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Just for fun, if you know your personality type and want to share, please do. This might make for some good conversation... I am a INTP (Introverted Thinking with Extraverted Intuition)... yeah, I live inside my head for the most part... http://www.typelogic.com/ http://www.personalitypage.com/ My MW is a ESFJ (Extraverted Feeling with Introverted Sensing)... Our personalities are about as opposite as they could be...
Confused4Now Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Just for fun, if you know your personality type and want to share, please do. This might make for some good conversation... I am a INTP (Introverted Thinking with Extraverted Intuition)... yeah, I live inside my head for the most part... http://www.typelogic.com/ http://www.personalitypage.com/ My MW is a ESFJ (Extraverted Feeling with Introverted Sensing)... Our personalities are about as opposite as they could be...I'm a ESFJ and my MW was a ESFJ...but I thought she tended to be more a ISFJ.
Author spiraling downward Posted August 12, 2009 Author Posted August 12, 2009 I'm a ESFJ and my MW was a ESFJ...but I thought she tended to be more a ISFJ. INTP-ESJF relationships... From what I gather, we are each other's anima... is that why we are drawn to each other? Of course it says we have the worst compatibility.
Author spiraling downward Posted August 12, 2009 Author Posted August 12, 2009 http://www.geocities.com/lifexplore INTPs in relationships... For the INTP, love has three distinct phases: falling in, staying in, and getting out. These phases relate to their thinking preference and its need for order and sequence. An INTP characterized falling in love as a stage of complete loss of rationality that may last a year or less. When an INTP falls in love, he or she falls hard - an all or nothing phenomenon. At this stage, INTPs are likely to be very lively, almost giddy, in their new love. The experience rushes over them and carries them along. They do not structure or control it but simply enjoy and experience it. They do many loving things and they are curious about their loved one and are able to overlook his or her flaws. They may bravely ignore the realities of distance, weather, and time to be with the loved one. As relationships progress to the staying-in-love phase, INTPs begin to evaluate their structure and form. They may withdraw at this point because they are moving toward their more customary inward style. Outward demonstrations of affection lessen, and the giddy state changes. Interactions are more matter of fact, perhaps even impersonal. INTPs take their commitments to their partner seriously; however, they may not discuss these commitments at any length with their partner or with other people, because their commitments seem so obvious to them. Falling out of love, which may not always occur, results from an analysis of the real expectations and needs of the relationship. Often an undefined line is crossed that neither partner knows about ahead of time. However, the INTP knows after the line has been crossed, and then the relationship deteriorates or ends. If INTPs recognize their emotions and needs as valid, they are able to sever relationship ties fairly cleanly. However, if they misjudge their own needs and those of their partner, the breakup can be messy, perhaps affecting other aspects of their lives for a long time. If the INTP shares some common interests with the former loved one, the relationship continues but on a different level. When INTPs have a reason to continue relationships, they do. ESFJs in relationships... For the ESFJ, love means warmth and commitment. When ESFJs first fall in love, they show this warmth and concern for their partner in many tangible ways. They will send cards, notes, flowers, special gifts, and other mementos of their affection. If the partner casually mentions a desire for a specific thing, they will try to find just that thing. Once committed in a relationship, ESFJs tend to stay with it even when there is inconvenience to them and perhaps longer than may be healthy. They are able to bring out the best in their partners, even though it may mean putting their own needs second. Because ESFJs are caring individuals, they expect to give and receive in their relationships. Because others may not be as thoughtful as the ESFJ, it is a possible source of disappointment to them if they expect the same awareness and caring on the part of the partner. Being practical and realistic, they may not always like effusive shows of affection and prefer moderation instead. ESFJs may be more loyal to the relationship or to the institution of marriage than to the person. ESFJs may take the end of the relationship as a personal failure. ESFJs, when scorned, hurt all over and may need to take time to get over the relationship before pursuing a new one. They may too easily and incorrectly blame themselves for the unfavourable outcome and recall instances when perhaps they were not as giving as they might have been. However, ESFJs' standards for giving in a relationship are likely to be above those of some other types. At their worst when scorned, ESFJs can become spiteful and critical of the partner. Because ESFJs are keenly sensitive to others and are tuned in to emotional needs, they really know how to hurt a person in the rare instances when they choose to do so.
Author spiraling downward Posted August 13, 2009 Author Posted August 13, 2009 Myself...INFJ xW...BITCH JW Good one!! You made my day!
Lyssa Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 Is there a test to see what a person is or am I suppose to read the whole website to see which one I am? I feel lazy right now but am curious .
OWoman Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 Myself...INFJ xW...BITCH JW My H's xW, too. Lot of it about, it seems...
silktricks Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 infp - except for somedays, when I turn into enfp
theBrokenMuse Posted August 16, 2009 Posted August 16, 2009 ENFJ (Extroverted-Intuitive-Feeling-Judging)
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