aerogurl87 Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Ok so my boyfriend and I broke up tonight and he used to cop out of "it's the distance, I need physical touch", etc. to try and get out of our relationship. So I broke up with him and I'm surprisingly happy. I still love him and everything but I deserve someone who can love me no matter what and who will fight for me. He thinks we're breaking up temporarily until we can move closer together. HA! I think not, this is the end, the real end of everything between us. Anyway as a gift to me I'm taking a trip to California paid by a very nice guy whose had a crush on me for awhile. So I'm doing fine and feel good about everything. Guess Mr. Right is still out there somewhere...
Els Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Oh honey, I'm sorry to hear that... but really glad to know that you're doing fine! I'm sure you'll find someone who deserves you more soon enough.
Bayern Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Uh...this sounds a little harsh on your part? I don't know enough details though...
Els Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 How is it harsh on her part? If HE breaks up with her she has every right to have a holiday with whomever she pleases, I'm sure. She even has the right to start dating again if she wishes, although she didn't say she would. Whatever makes her happy, as long as it's not excessive like getting someone to throw raw eggs on his door.
hoping2heal Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 How is it harsh on her part? If HE breaks up with her she has every right to have a holiday with whomever she pleases, I'm sure. She even has the right to start dating again if she wishes, although she didn't say she would. Whatever makes her happy, as long as it's not excessive like getting someone to throw raw eggs on his door. He didn't break up with her, she broke up with him. If she feels happy she did it though then she did the right thing, for them both.
Bayern Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 How is it harsh on her part? If HE breaks up with her she has every right to have a holiday with whomever she pleases, I'm sure. She even has the right to start dating again if she wishes, although she didn't say she would. Whatever makes her happy, as long as it's not excessive like getting someone to throw raw eggs on his door. As Hoping2Heal noted, it wasn't he who broke up with her, but vice versa after he had mentioned he wanted physical interaction. I believe it is justifiable for him to mention that he wants physical interaction without outright breaking up with you. I just found it to be a bit harsh for her to take that (which I find to just be communicating well on his part) and end the relationship. Again though, I don't know how he said it, how their relationship has gone before or anything about it other than what she posted. From what she posted, that is my impression though...
Els Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 She said it was he who was trying to get out of the relationship. =/ Sometimes it's not the person who says the words that matters. With my ex ex, even though he said the words, it was me who broke up with him... I just didn't have the guts to come out and tell him straight. I wish I'd had but that was a different matter entirely. I don't follow her history so I could be wrong of course.
Author aerogurl87 Posted August 13, 2009 Author Posted August 13, 2009 Well today I found out that he apparently already has a new girlfriend even though yesterday morning he called me and told me that he loved me, I was his everything, etc. So yeah I'm dating again... just glad I was able to see how much of an ******* he really was before it was too late.
Els Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 Ugh! That sucks!! Sooner better than later though, definitely. Stay strong, honey, and don't hesitate to rant here if you ever feel like it, we're all here for you. Go on that vacation and just have the time of your life!
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