ruggy Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 So this woman winked at me on Match. I replied the next day. e-mailed her about her where she grew up and here edu. She asked me the same and I replied back. No response. WTF?
boogieboy Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Give her a day or so. If she doesnt answer, so what. Dont be so clingy already.
Author ruggy Posted August 12, 2009 Author Posted August 12, 2009 Wasn't being clingy. Its the principal. You (her) initiated the convo and then don't reply. Weird in my opinion. Another woman I e-mailed two or three weeks ago replies today to say hi? What is up with all these waiting games. Are we 3 or 30 here? Geez. Would just like to find someone that acts like an adult and not a kid. Is that so much to ask for?
trahn Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 dude, she probably winked at 10 other guys, some dude replied and had a pic or two with his shirt off and a solid six pack ..she saw that and forgot she ever winked at you man.
boogieboy Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Online, alot of women have TONS of emails to go though. So youre lucky she got back to you at all. When you try to find women the lazy way, youre gonna get lazy results most of the time. And you shouldnt be waiting for anything and setting expectations for people you havent met in person yet. She doesnt take you that seriously, you shouldnt be either. Do it the old fashioned way and meet them in person. And youre right, its not clingy, you're needy. Maybe youre frustrated, but theyre not kids just because theyre not interested in you. When youre posting about why women are blowing you off, its needy. She might have gotten turned off by what you said, but in the end, she wasnt all that interested. You shouldnt be thinking twice about anyone who doesnt answer you right away and move on to the next. You gotta learn how to handle rejection a lil better. When you can casually write women and not care if they write you back or not, then youre not needy anymore. Maybe paste the convo and we can see if you might have come off the wrong way?
dreamergrl Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 I've seen you express previous frustration with online dating. I think perhaps, it's just not for you. So what if she didn't email you back. Maybe she's busy. Maybe you said something that lessened her interest. Maybe she was border line. Women (or Men) or not required to continue conversation just because one email was exchanged.
alexlakeman Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Remember alot of people that just wink, do NOT have a paid subscription, therefore can't email you... total waste of time... Why even post a question on the subject? There's tons of women on there... I've had good success. I also have winked, then the women email or wink back and I decide not to follow up, lol... I might be in a hurry one night, cast the net out and just wink at 5-10 without reading too much the description. A few might wink / email back, so then I go read their profile and decide not for me.. I don't respond back... move on dude.... What do you do when woman doesn't return your text msg or phone call? LOL
Author ruggy Posted August 12, 2009 Author Posted August 12, 2009 Lets see. She winked, I e-mailed back. She then replied to my question about where she lived and where she went to school. I replied the same about where I lived and went to school. How can something like that get messed up or look "needy"? If a women does not respond, then fine. I do not go and chase her. I may rant on it here, but it is what it is. Frustrated... Yes. Needy, no.
Author ruggy Posted August 12, 2009 Author Posted August 12, 2009 What do you do when woman doesn't return your text msg or phone call? LOL Depends. If its a stupid blow off reason or no reason at all, drop em.
lucy9216 Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Well did you ask her any additional questions in the last email? I had one on my account that sent me an email asked me some questions, I responded and asked the same questions about him. Then he responds and says " Do you have any questions you want to ask me?" I thought WTF??? did this guy not even read my email??? So I never responded. There was another where we were going back and forth with emails and he kept hinting at asking me out but he just wouldn't. Then his emails got shorter and he didn't seem very interested in asking about me, So I stopped responding to him too because it got frustrating everytime I felt I was making an effort with keeping the conversation going but he didn't. So, did you do any of these things?
utterer of lies Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Lets see. She winked, I e-mailed back. She then replied to my question about where she lived and where she went to school. I replied the same about where I lived and went to school. How can something like that get messed up or look "needy"? If a women does not respond, then fine. I do not go and chase her. Don't obsess over this stuff. She didn't respond. If it's to the first or third email shouldn't matter, it's still a signal. I may rant on it here, but it is what it is. Frustrated... Yes. Needy, no. Needy and frustrated - Yes.
dreamergrl Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Ruggy - look at Lucy's post... reply to it. I'm curious of the asnwers
Author ruggy Posted August 13, 2009 Author Posted August 13, 2009 Well did you ask her any additional questions in the last email? I had one on my account that sent me an email asked me some questions, I responded and asked the same questions about him. Then he responds and says " Do you have any questions you want to ask me?" I thought WTF??? did this guy not even read my email??? So I never responded. There was another where we were going back and forth with emails and he kept hinting at asking me out but he just wouldn't. Then his emails got shorter and he didn't seem very interested in asking about me, So I stopped responding to him too because it got frustrating everytime I felt I was making an effort with keeping the conversation going but he didn't. So, did you do any of these things? All my responses to all were about a small paragraph answering the reply. She just asked "What about you? Tell me more." Replied with where I grew up, worked and moved too. Then followed up what do you like to do for fun? Have you traveled a lot? utterer of lies, please, do me a favor and try not to psycho-analyze me. This has nothing about being needy. Starting a thread about why a woman winks at me, send an e-mail to her the next day, she replies an hour later, and then just POOF stops communication is weird. So, again, just very frustrated.
lucy9216 Posted August 13, 2009 Posted August 13, 2009 It could be that she just hasn't checked it yet? not really sure, but I know sometimes I do take a while to respond on my dating account probly because I haven't met some very good ones on there yet and I just lost interest with the maintenance on my account, I have alot of other things I need to do with my time too. It could be that she just wasn't that interested in your profile too, I know I have responded to a couple before that after reading their profile further I just didn't feel the desire to keep the conversation going. Anywhoo doesent really matter why? just move onto the next, people do strange things for no apparent reason, no sense in trying to figure it all out and anylaze it.
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