mark1210 Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Hey Folks, So, this is regarding my previous forum post, it's the same girl I'm writing about. She will be back in town Friday, her and I are going to a fancy wine tasting place for the evening. I tried to arrange it for Saturday but she says: "I'm going out to the lake on the boat, I tried to invite you but was told there are too many guys already". Seems to me, that she would have said to the folks, then I'm not going if my boyfriend can't make it. Or at the very least, asked me if I was ok with her going without me. Neither of which happened. Especially after just getting back Friday. I understand its the last weekend of summer for her (she goes back to college) but still.... I don't want to make a mountain out of a mole hill..but am I the only one that sees that as being odd? I don't question the trust part, she hasn't given me a reason not to trust her yet. I've been out there with her friends twice before. Thanks!
browneyedgirl28 Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Well, if she already had plans, and there were too many guys already, I could understand that. Yeah, she could have showed a little more concern about you not going with her. Possibly asking you if you don't mind it. I don't think she should necessarily not go all together because you don't though. Hey Folks, So, this is regarding my previous forum post, it's the same girl I'm writing about. She will be back in town Friday, her and I are going to a fancy wine tasting place for the evening. I tried to arrange it for Saturday but she says: "I'm going out to the lake on the boat, I tried to invite you but was told there are too many guys already". Seems to me, that she would have said to the folks, then I'm not going if my boyfriend can't make it. Or at the very least, asked me if I was ok with her going without me. Neither of which happened. Especially after just getting back Friday. I understand its the last weekend of summer for her (she goes back to college) but still.... I don't want to make a mountain out of a mole hill..but am I the only one that sees that as being odd? I don't question the trust part, she hasn't given me a reason not to trust her yet. I've been out there with her friends twice before. Thanks!
Soul Bear Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 I think that's pretty lame to be honest, and I would be mighty pissed off the my GF would rather have the 'other guys' over me... You did ask for my 2p So there you have it I hope you trust her
Author mark1210 Posted August 12, 2009 Author Posted August 12, 2009 Wow - two differing opinions. My female friends (and I mean strictly friends) said the same thing....well just cause you can't go doesn't mean she should pass up the chance, considering its her last summer weekend. And "be glad you are her first priority when she gets back, hence her wanting to see you right after she gets in town". My guy friends have the same opinion as Soul Bear. And they go one step further and say I may be her filler when she has no other plans.
browneyedgirl28 Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Wow - two differing opinions. My female friends (and I mean strictly friends) said the same thing....well just cause you can't go doesn't mean she should pass up the chance, considering its her last summer weekend. And "be glad you are her first priority when she gets back, hence her wanting to see you right after she gets in town". My guy friends have the same opinion as Soul Bear. And they go one step further and say I may be her filler when she has no other plans. I just think she should show a little more concern of your feelings about not going with her.
Soul Bear Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Yeah but she even said she tried to get you along....yet she only told you about it when you brought up about it being Sunday.....that's the first you had heard of it right?
Soul Bear Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 I'm not going to say you will be her filler, as that is unfair. It just sounds suspicious to me. What is she like around other guys?
Author mark1210 Posted August 12, 2009 Author Posted August 12, 2009 Yeah but she even said she tried to get you along....yet she only told you about it when you brought up about it being Sunday.....that's the first you had heard of it right? You mean Saturday, and yes..first i heard of it.
Author mark1210 Posted August 12, 2009 Author Posted August 12, 2009 I'm not going to say you will be her filler, as that is unfair. It just sounds suspicious to me. What is she like around other guys? She talks to them, maybe a bit of flirting but nothing more. I know some of the guy friends out there...it's usually a pretty close group. She has one guy friend that is always slapping her ass. That gets under my skin, but they have been friends longer than I've known her. Her friends always slap my ass so not much I can say...
Soul Bear Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 OK....why would he slap her ass knowing she is with you???? That's disrespectful. This whole thing stinks especially her friend who has known her for longer than you have who always slaps her arse....i would be cautious bro. Experience
browneyedgirl28 Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 She talks to them, maybe a bit of flirting but nothing more. I know some of the guy friends out there...it's usually a pretty close group. She has one guy friend that is always slapping her ass. That gets under my skin, but they have been friends longer than I've known her. Her friends always slap my ass so not much I can say... If she is hanging out with a bunch of guys, flirting and allowing them to slap her ass often, that sounds a little off. lol
Soul Bear Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 BeG- Yup. I don't get a good feeling from this at all...... I really hope for your sake OP that this is all not as it it appears to be....
Author mark1210 Posted August 12, 2009 Author Posted August 12, 2009 Thanks folks - guess time will tell. She hasn't given me any reason not to trust her yet. No lies, she tells me whatever I ask. I do think it's a bit odd but it happened right in front of me so its not being hidden. Still don't think I'm a filler when she doesn't have plans?
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