patcha Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 it really hurts! how does everyone cope? since her and i are in the same social circle, do i just disappear? i can't stand seeing her talking to other people.
littlewhiterose Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 My dear, how about you ask her a simple "What's up? How's it going?" or something a bit more detailed depending on how well you know each other.
Palmer253 Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 No you just do your best to not make a big deal out of it and show her that she didn't hurt you.
HappyAgain Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Just ignore her. Don't disappear, then she knows she's getting to you. Keep going about your business like you always have, meet friends, going out, whatever. In time, you won't even notice her anymore.
utterer of lies Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 when they just stop talking to you for no reason She does have a reason for ignoring you - lack of interest in you.
littlewhiterose Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Definitely don't make a big deal about it but- Ignore the girl? How many times would one have to go through a situation like that before you ask the other person. I mean, what if it's something you're doing that you're unaware of ? I'd kind of want to know. Doesn't mean they'd be right but... Not doing anything seems kinda selfish or self-absorbed, no? Like you didn't care in the first place, no? And that's not true.
collegekid491 Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Coping sucks, but I usually bury myself in some other hobby. I wouldn't ditch the crowd unless she brought you into it, or if you really didn't associate with them without her around. Ignore her, as much as it isn't the best choice, its the safest if you are so emotionally involved that you may spill to much. If you can compose yourself and bench the emotion, talking to her about it maturely is best. Here's the thing though... would you even wanna be involved with her if this is how she dealt with a issue, by simply ignoring it? Doesn't sound like you were involved that long, could be more of a case of falling in love with the idea of being in love and not the actual girl.
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