Soul Bear Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 I would say NO at this point....not now. She has lessons to learn and I have some growing and finding to do too, thank god we are not still talking or friends, otherwise she would NEVER learn, and neither would I Although my EX-EX is hinting at possible reconciliation..after 6 years apart...it's still a NO! (at least as far as commitment goes, as she was AMAZING in bed) but i think we are both on the same page hahahaha
PandaStillLovesBunny Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 I would only take one of them back - my bunny - because we broke up for stupid reasons. There were no fights, no falling outs, no cheating, it just... ended. So things are hanging there, and I'd like to push the relationship back onto solid ground, so to speak. The other relationships needed to end, and I would never go back.
redhighheels Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Once dumped, twice shy. It would take nothing short of divine intervention for me to even begin considering taking him back. History has a way of repeating itself, and I'll be damned if I'll put myself in that position again. It wasn't a bad relationship at all, but if he wanted to go, he's free to stay gone.
Soul Bear Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Once dumped, twice shy. It would take nothing short of divine intervention for me to even begin considering taking him back. History has a way of repeating itself, and I'll be damned if I'll put myself in that position again. It wasn't a bad relationship at all, but if he wanted to go, he's free to stay gone. So true...so true... My ex-ex was a big flirt and going by her recent holiday photo's where she is draped over guys (whiolst she was in a 2 year R at that time) she has not changed THAT worrying aspect....so it's still a NO
silic0ntoad Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 to answer the question: my heart says: YESYESYESYESYESYESYESYESYES! my head says: NONONONONONONONONONONONO! after 3 years together, it's now been one month and 6 days. does the hurt EVER go away? I just would like a relationship where my head and my heart can be on the same page, thankyouverymuch. Stop counting days. The number will keep growing, and with each one, you'll drift a little more into depression and insanity. I stopped after 14 I think?
silic0ntoad Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 I would only take one of them back - my bunny - because we broke up for stupid reasons. There were no fights, no falling outs, no cheating, it just... ended. So things are hanging there, and I'd like to push the relationship back onto solid ground, so to speak. The other relationships needed to end, and I would never go back. This sounds alot like my situation. I, however, would have to be drugged to take her back. IDK. Once you stab me in the back, I tend to look only one way at you. And that's down. So, unless the mother Gaia herself intervened I probably would not take her back. Some people need to realise it's not a country club. They can't walk in and out without fear of retaliation. When this stuff goes down, I stick to my guns but I make sure they are loaded, if you take my meaning. You would have to do some serious, serious changing in order to come back to me, and even then, I may still not deem it worthy of my affection.
dressing up Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 I would like my ex to beg me to go back. Then I would decide whether to take him back since I think of him sometimes.
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