SO nervous

[Woggle]

People male or female can sleep with whoever if they are single. If a woman betrays a man though she should be called out for it. I don't even know if whore is the right word though.

[Hi.P.O'Crit]

It's not the right word. Not even slut is applicable. Promiscuous I can accept.

 

A slut is a promiscuous person that is indiscriminate with many partners. The OP at least discriminated to one previous lover.

 

The act of betrayal is still wrong though.

[Chrome Barracuda]

Hmmm I dont know about that. I think if the situation calls for it. then whatever, use it.

 

Sometimes when your in anger or rage and that person betrays you and hurts you, your not trying to be politically correct.

 

You want to hurt them back... no matter how many times she cheated, or in any variation(s)

[Dexter Morgan]

Dexter' date=' see bolded part for my post.[/quote']

 

well, then I guess some of us are plain old wh0res, while others double dip with that label;)

[Dexter Morgan]

It's not the right word.

 

so you are saying that someone that cheats is scrupulous?

[boogieboy]

OHNOES -

I truly think you should consider abortion in this case. You should step away from both men, and be by yourself for a while until you are completely over your toxic ex, and your current bf. Trying to find someone who is willing to take on somone elses baby will be exponentially tougher on you, dont raise a kid single when its not necessary. You have a chance to make a completely fresh start, I think you should take advantage of it.

[Dexter Morgan]

OHNOES -

I truly think you should consider abortion in this case.

 

just make sure they sterilize the scissors before they stick them in the back of the baby's head. she could get a nasty infection:rolleyes:

[tami-chan]

hahahahahaha, are you trying to be funny now? She was in a relationship with someone else that she loves and she had sex with a guy that she wasn't in a relationship with. She got pregnant from a guy that wasn't her bf while she had a boyfriend. That is being promiscuous(no matter what kind of feelings she has).

 

Let me present the facts to you....it seems like you have lost your bearings with the laugh... She got pregnant by an ex-bf, one she has never really gotten over with. This is not some random guy or casual sex.There are some deeper feelings involved.

 

Once again you refuse to allow other people to have opinions different than yours because your life is so pathetic that this(fantasy world) is all you have.

 

This is so profound...LOL...this is the best you can do? I hope you're college loan is not that much....it sure was not worth it.

 

You do relaize that you have argued with everyone on this thread but somehow you believe that we are in some kind of battle and the crazy part is that you believe you are winning.

 

I have argued with everyone? surely you exaggerate. Lies and exaggeration, boy, you do really remind of another liar on this site...but at least he is not a cheater-LOL!!!! just like you

 

 

You are even going after sidlyon because he gave a more precise definition of the word whore. Clearly we have 5 or 6 people that disagree with you and you have nothing better to do than sit here and hope someone acknowledges you on these threads.

 

Precise? SHE can't even defend her statements.

 

By the way people are aloud to use words that don't fit there exact meaning. We call people all types of words from pimp to dork and they never match there "dictionary" meaning. But guess what, that is called common language.

 

Ahh...my point EXACTLY;) . Stop making excuses for the BF...how he used the word is how it is commonly used..so please, people, do not give me the TERTIARY definition of whore......did I say , reaching?

 

You just so totally tripped yourself. Sorry, ikjh, you' re just one silly guy.

 

Try better, buddy.

[mark982]

there's deeper feelings involved? that's just plain crazy. and not some random guy? so with those ideas it's okay for me to boink the gf's that i had before i was married? only difference is a piece of legal paper.

[tami-chan]

there's deeper feelings involved? that's just plain crazy. and not some random guy? so with those ideas it's okay for me to boink the gf's that i had before i was married? only difference is a piece of legal paper.

 

Yes, on her part there are deeper feelings....have you read her posts, at least?...Mark, you are totally missing the point ( I hope by intent,otherwise-phew...boy, you have a problem)...NOBODY is saying what she did was right. So, no, the answer to your silly question is "no, it would not be ok". Let me re-cap it for you...She had sex with her ex-bf, one that she has never really gotten over with (this is not right, we ALL agree about this-yes, despite ikjh's insistence ). She was called a whore by her BF. I said..her BF was out of line for using crude language like that. Of course, many of the scorned men here said...yes she was a whore...I begged to disagree. That's were the discussion stemmed from...are you still following this? Jesus...<rolls eyes >...

[lkjh]

Ya ok Tami. You are right its ok for her to cheat on her bf and get pregnant because it was with a ex. That makes everything ok

[SidLyon]

Tami wrote:

 

You are even going after sidlyon because he gave a more precise definition of the word whore. Clearly we have 5 or 6 people that disagree with you and you have nothing better to do than sit here and hope someone acknowledges you on these threads.

Precise? SHE can't even defend her statements.

**********************************************

What statements are these Tami?

 

I cited a definition from:

 

The Concise Oxford Dictionary edited by J B Sykes - 6th Edition - 11th Impression (1980)- Page 1332 - definition of "whore".

 

I happen to think that the definition is somewhat old fashioned from a bygone era when any sex outsider marriage was frowned upon. That doesn't change the fact that it is still a common insult - one which neither I nor any of my friends have used to describe anyone on this discussion forum.

 

Now which statements precisely did I make that I haven't defended please?

 

 

S

[tami-chan]

First, learn how to quote correctly.

 

I understand what you were doing Sidlyon. You went looking for a definition that would support your "buddie's" argument. Except that, when I turned it around and applied it to YOU, you got offended by it and said, that I was ok calling you a whore...when in fact I actually was NOT calling you a whore, I was merely using your definition to make a point..your response? GASP! you were offended....was that a defense to your statement? If it was , then it was very lame. I say if you are going throw something out there, make sure it does not boomerang to you.

[tami-chan]

Ya ok Tami. You are right its ok for her to cheat on her bf and get pregnant because it was with a ex. That makes everything ok

 

Can you quote where I said it was ok? or is this just one of your lies?

[SidLyon]

First, learn how to quote correctly.

 

I understand what you were doing Sidlyon. You went looking for a definition that would support your "buddie's" argument. Except that, when I turned it around and applied it to YOU, you got offended by it and said, that I was ok calling you a whore...when in fact I actually was NOT calling you a whore, I was merely using your definition to make a point..your response? GASP! you were offended....was that a defense to your statement? If it was , then it was very lame. I say if you are going throw something out there, make sure it does not boomerang to you.

 

[FONT=Arial][sIZE=2]Tami you couldn't be more wrong with your wild speculation and erroneous assumptions. I have only the one dictionary. I merely provided a definition which you then applied to me in a very insulting manner. I didn't throw a boomerang - you chose to hurl insults at me. This discussion between us is now pointless so I won't be responding to you any further on this point no matter how ridiculous, irrational or offensive your response.[/sIZE][/FONT]

 

S

[lkjh]

[FONT=Arial][sIZE=2]Tami you couldn't be more wrong with your wild speculation and erroneous assumptions. I have only the one dictionary. I merely provided a definition which you then applied to me in a very insulting manner. I didn't throw a boomerang - you chose to hurl insults at me. This discussion between us is now pointless so I won't be responding to you any further on this point no matter how ridiculous, irrational or offensive your response.[/sIZE][/FONT]

 

S

 

 

thats pretty much all Tami does. She makes up crazy assumptions

[tami-chan]

[FONT=Arial][sIZE=2]Tami you couldn't be more wrong with your wild speculation and erroneous assumptions. I have only the one dictionary. I merely provided a definition which you then applied to me in a very insulting manner. I didn't throw a boomerang - you chose to hurl insults at me. This discussion between us is now pointless so I won't be responding to you any further on this point no matter how ridiculous, irrational or offensive your response.[/sIZE][/FONT]

 

S

 

Ok, Sidlyon...so your dictionary is old...fine. Are you saying that it only gave ONE PRIMARY meaning of whore? or you chose one of the meanings and posted it here because it would support some people's contention?

 

or maybe I should just ask you, what was your point of sharing that particular meaning? Just to throw it out there? Well...if thatwass the case, it got back to you...like I said, it boomeranged to you...look, another poster got it, I think Hip-O-Crit explained it and in fact, later on Dexter ACTUALLY admitted that if we use the definition that you picked ...well..heck, we are all guilty!!!!

 

so, if you can be honest with yourself and answer the question I asked..maybe you won't be so mad....and you do not even have to let me know the answer, since you said you do not want to respond anymore...

[tami-chan]

thats pretty much all Tami does. She makes up crazy assumptions

 

 

LOL:lmao:...can't quote me on the lie that you are propagating, huh? ...so you go this route....:p:p!!!! too funny!

[boldjack]

Well Folks, I think that the OP has fled. With all the snarling, bashing, and oneupmanship going on, you can hardly blame her. OP(if you're still there) I have 4 pieces of advice: 1) Figure out what you are going to do about the pregnancy. 2) Leave your current BF, he deserves better than you. 3) Never, ever, trust your "ex", he slept with you, knowing you were with somebody else, and he has dumped you before. 4) NEVER CHEAT AGAIN, It isn't worth it, and I think you know that now.

[Dexter Morgan]

or maybe I should just ask you, what was your point of sharing that particular meaning? Just to throw it out there? Well...if thatwass the case, it got back to you...like I said, it boomeranged to you...look, another poster got it, I think Hip-O-Crit explained it and in fact, later on Dexter ACTUALLY admitted that if we use the definition that you picked ...well..heck, we are all guilty!!!!

 

the sarcasm missed ya

[tami-chan]

the sarcasm missed ya

 

Actually, I didn't. You were "sarcastic" because you found the definition (paraphrasing here} "a fornicator is a whore" ridiculous!

[Dexter Morgan]

Actually, I didn't. You were "sarcastic" because you found the definition (paraphrasing here} "a fornicator is a whore" ridiculous!

 

no, I just have a different idea what a "fornicator" is. And its not having sex with different people before your are married. Its being indiscriminate in doing so, or being descriminate, but cheating on someone else while doing it.

 

but again, I am going by the more widely accepted definition of which Merriam Webster is one, and that an "unscrupulous person" can be defined as a wh0re. And I find someone that cheats to be unscrupulous.

[tami-chan]

no, I just have a different idea what a "fornicator" is. And its not having sex with different people

 

I know:rolleyes:...my point exactly. Not sure why you are saying "no"...silly..it's ok to agree with me, Dex...LOL!

 

but again, I am going by the more widely accepted definition of which Merriam Webster is one, and that an "unscrupulous person" can be defined as a wh0re. And I find someone that cheats to be unscrupulous.

,

 

Ahm...yeah I read that version, too and it IS the TERTIARY(just in case you missed it, it means, third ) definition of the word. So, NO it is NOT the "more widely accepted definition''...ugh...don't you know how to use the dictionary correctly? But whatever works, right?