dreamergrl Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Yeah... you know what I mean.... those girls that are so closed minded, bitter, and unhappy with themselves, so they take it out on everyone else. How attractive is that? Especially when it shows on a daily basis.
missdependant Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 From a woman's standpoint.. It's highly undesirable in my choice of female friends, and is highly undesirable in the men I choose to date.
northstar1 Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Yeah... you know what I mean.... those girls that are so closed minded, bitter, and unhappy with themselves, so they take it out on everyone else. How attractive is that? Especially when it shows on a daily basis. hmmmm, subtle one there DG
Jersey Shortie Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Probably the same way they feel about catty, jealous, whiney cat-fighting women. Do continue Dreamergrl. It's most entertaining.
Author dreamergrl Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 Probably the same way they feel about catty, jealous, whiney cat-fighting women. Do continue Dreamergrl. It's most entertaining. I don't have my spidey sense today. Was this a sarcastic slam at me? Cuz I'm only trying to point out that it's not a great trait to always be putting someone down.
missdependant Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Probably the same way they feel about catty, jealous, whiney cat-fighting women. Do continue Dreamergrl. It's most entertaining. Oh, the Irony!
Citizen Drawn Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 I think most of the guys are just enjoying watching you all go at it like cats right now. Let us know when the hair pulling begins.
Author dreamergrl Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 Just because others have opinions doesn't mean they are unhappy and bitter. :)Unhappy people in my opinion are the ones who are screaming for attention, and put up their photo albums in desperate attempt to attract men of all sorts..and what is even the point of this when you are lacking in the looks department. Cuz I'm the only one with a photo album Why don't you head down to the water cooler and share your picture with everyone else and relax a bit
Author dreamergrl Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 I think most of the guys are just enjoying watching you all go at it like cats right now. Let us know when the hair pulling begins. I don't think I've ever pulled hair
gopher Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Some guys love bitches, but anyone that has dated them or been married to them, steers clear. Usually, you can tell right off the bat even if they're trying hard to hide it. Hence, they usually get one or two dates before a guy sees through them. Thankfully my g/f is a sweetheart!
Thaddeus Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 I've got an acquaintance that I referenced in another thread that's similar to what Dreamergrl outlined: whiny, backstabbing, with a history of cheating but she's also got absurdly high self-esteem (bordering on narcissism, I think, though I'm not qualified to make a diagnosis). Thing is, she's got men falling at her feet for her attention because she's exquisitely hot. I got drawn into it for a short time too before I saw her in the clear light of day. She's a walking reminder of that old saying, "For every hot chick you see, there's someone in her life that's just tired of her sh*t."
DSM-IV Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 We can make all kinds of variant topics like this til the cows come home. How bout a topic about what you DO like in women. To answer your question, though... I don't mind girls that whine, because usually it comes from lack of self esteem or confidence, which I can help them with. As for judgmental.. although it falls under the same general category as low self esteem, THIS is just more annoying. But I'd much rather have a judgmental, whiny, sad, depressed, train wreck girl than an easy, slutty, overly flirt girl. Because in the world of psychology, the easy, slutty types are in the same mental defected league as the people who cut and burn themselves. Look it up. They're very, very troubled.
Pyro Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 What do I think? They can go munch on a pickle for all I care. I steer clear of that type.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Aww, but MissIndependent, I'm not the one that started the thread. As amusing as I am finding it. If we are honest with ourselves ALL women have the capabilities to be anyone of the things listed at certain times. You included. The OP included. I don't have my spidey sense today. Was this a sarcastic slam at me? Cuz I'm only trying to point out that it's not a great trait to always be putting someone down. I was pointing out that other traits are equally unattractive.
Devil Inside Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 LOL...this is better than those reality dating shows on television. As for the question...certain aspects of those kind of women attract me...but never keep me interested for long.
Author dreamergrl Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 Look, let me put it this way. I'm not afraid to show my picture. I'm proud of who I am, inside and out, so I'm not going to hide anything. I spent way to many years being angry and jealous, so now I want to smile and have fun. I love being social and interacting with other people, if that makes me a whore, then so be it. It's not as if I'm sucking LoveShack PENIS (yes, I said Penis). If you have a problem with it, go suck on a pickle Have a nice day!
missdependant Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Now you are starting some silly thread in reference to so called judgmental, whiney women? That's a little uncalled for if you ask me. About as uncalled for as the thread labeled "what do men really think of superficial girls?" ?
DSM-IV Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 I love being social and interacting with other people, if that makes me a whore, then so be it.! This train of thought is not easy to follow. Can you explain how being "social and interacting" equates to being a potential whore? By the definition of social, it means talking and being extroverted. And by interaction, well, that's a subcategory of socializing. How exactly do they make you a whore? What kind of "interactions" do you partake in? Do elucidate.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 I had similar thoughts as DSM. I didn't see anyone call her a whore.
Author dreamergrl Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 This train of thought is not easy to follow. Can you explain how being "social and interacting" equates to being a potential whore? By the definition of social, it means talking and being extroverted. And by interaction, well, that's a subcategory of socializing. How exactly do they make you a whore? What kind of interactions are running through your mind right about now? Do elucidate. Aloneanddepressed called me an attention whore for posting my picture on here and having funny threads.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Loveshack won't let me edit my post but I should have also said "MYSELF included". I find the threads entertaining and that's what loveshack is for! Keep up the posting!
DSM-IV Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Aloneanddepressed called me an attention whore for posting my picture on here and having funny threads. Ah. Well posting your pics doesn't make you an attention whore. At least I don't think so, as I've posted mine before too. But you didn't say attention whore in the original post. You said you were potentially a whore. It's really not my business to probe and find out if you actually qualify as a whore in real life or not. So I won't ask any more questions. But what I will say is you're a pretty girl, and I truly hope you don't give yourself to people easily.
Author dreamergrl Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 Ah. Well posting your pics doesn't make you an attention whore. At least I don't think so, as I've posted mine before too. But you didn't say attention whore in the original post. You said you were potentially a whore. It's really not my business to probe and find out if you actually qualify as a whore in real life or not. So I won't ask any more questions. But what I will say is you're a pretty girl, and I truly hope you don't give yourself to people easily. LOL I know it wouldn't let me go back and edit. I meant to be attention in there. And hell no, I don't just give myself to people. I have standards. I just joke around a lot.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 But what I will say is you're a pretty girl, and I truly hope you don't give yourself to people easily. If a girl is free with herself and has fun giving herself to other people, that doesn't make her a whore either. Do you guys want someone who enjoys sex or not.
DSM-IV Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 If a girl is free with herself and has fun giving herself to other people, that doesn't make her a whore either. Actually it does. Is this how you are? As for you dreamer, I'm glad to hear you are just joking a lot. You seem like a really cool and down to Earth girl, who a guy would be lucky to earn. (I don't mean earn as in just sex, but overall. Relationship, etc)
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