Kristy19 Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 So as a joke my friends thought it would be funny to create a personal ad on a dating site because they think I've been single for a long time. Two years in my eyes is not a long time. I'm only 19. Anyways, in the process of this I started talking to a guy who was on the site. We've been talking for about 2 months now and he's told me more than once that he wants to meet me in person and that he thinks I'm the perfect girl for him. The problem is that he's still going on that site for I don't know what. I mean if I'm so called the perfect girl for him why would he still be on that site? So I guess what I want to know is should I ask him about it and decide whether or not I still want to talk to him or should I just tell him that I don't want to talk to him anymore? PS: I haven't been going on the site since we started talking unless I get an email. I stay in VA and he stays in GA
stepka Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Um Kristy, this is a joke right? I get guys alla time telling me I'm the perfect girl for them, even when there's a 20 year age difference or 500 mile distance between us. I don't even take any of that seriously and I would never pull my profile for some guy I hadn't even met yet, no matter how dreamy he might be. BTW, the guys who are closer to home and age-appropriateness never tell me I'm the perfect woman for them, not on email anyway--somehow they seem so much more realistic and are less handsome. Anyway, i still think you're a troll--just offering this up for someone else more innocent than you probably are.
tkgirl Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Um Kristy, this is a joke right? I get guys alla time telling me I'm the perfect girl for them, even when there's a 20 year age difference or 500 mile distance between us. I don't even take any of that seriously and I would never pull my profile for some guy I hadn't even met yet, no matter how dreamy he might be. BTW, the guys who are closer to home and age-appropriateness never tell me I'm the perfect woman for them, not on email anyway--somehow they seem so much more realistic and are less handsome. Anyway, i still think you're a troll--just offering this up for someone else more innocent than you probably are. I say we cut you a break Kristy.. you are only 19! But you gotta know that guys online will say a LOT of things like that, compared to guys you meet IRL (in real life). Like if you were dating a guy for two months and he was telling you that you're the "perfect girl" for him, then that's way different. And if he was out at bars trying to meet other chicks at the same time, then you'd have a right to be upset and not want to see him. But online? You know, he's probably emailing a few women and telling them the same thing. Plus, you haven't even decided you want to meet with him in person (not saying you should) so why wouldn't he be on the site still? He's on there to meet someone! I'm not too sure online dating is for you right now... at 19 you should be out with friends and having fun. I'm sure there's tons of guys out there you can meet.. you know, IRL!
Lyssa Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 I say we cut you a break Kristy.. you are only 19! But you gotta know that guys online will say a LOT of things like that, compared to guys you meet IRL (in real life). Like if you were dating a guy for two months and he was telling you that you're the "perfect girl" for him, then that's way different. And if he was out at bars trying to meet other chicks at the same time, then you'd have a right to be upset and not want to see him. But online? You know, he's probably emailing a few women and telling them the same thing. Plus, you haven't even decided you want to meet with him in person (not saying you should) so why wouldn't he be on the site still? He's on there to meet someone! I'm not too sure online dating is for you right now... at 19 you should be out with friends and having fun. I'm sure there's tons of guys out there you can meet.. you know, IRL! Very true. You're 19 - long way ahead of you. So many things and people to explore.
BobSacamento Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 If you haven't met yet then there is still a chance you could flake out on him. Men need to cast a wide net while online dating. I wouldn't be offended. Either stop stringing him along and meet him or go with your plan as crazy controlling psycho stranger girl.
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