Soul Bear Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 If you want to remain on friendly terms after a Breakup or Divorce, here is what NOT to say or do after and during you break a heart...ever... ''I never truly loved you'' - This makes you look like a fool '' I never gave you my whole heart, but I will to the next person''- This makes you look pathetic ''Our time together was a training ground for true love''- This actually hurts and I wouldnt suggest saying this to ANYONE you have loved or ever will ''I'm in love with someone else'' (with a person you met 3 weeks prior) - This makes you look like a weak, co-dependant personality type who can't deal with your issues ''My next relationship is going to be amazing''- This makes you look harsh ''I always felt like you loved me more than I loved you.''- makes you look like you live a constant lie, a backstabber and a complete joke ''I havent even thought about you at all since we broke up, I have been having so much fun.''- again, make you look like a cold ice queen ''There is never any chance for us EVER again..... I want you as a friend tho.''- er...no! You dont say these things to friends or someone you cared about ''Im interested in someone else now. I dont see you that way anymore''- It had only been 1 month, You dont waste any time do you?! ''I only took you back last time cos you looked so wretched ''- wow...your so sweet and kind ''I have been preparing for this for a year''- This makes you look like you are a player HAHAHA! I'm SO OVER YOU now!! Never again will i make NAYONE a priority, who only makes me an option.
ScarLettIsle Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 or... i'm only as faithful as my options i'm just a MAN.. these temporary flings prep us for what we really want (never let ur buff bunny talk to ur baby momma!!) i know i'm with u - but i'm still looking for the ONE...
Author Soul Bear Posted August 10, 2009 Author Posted August 10, 2009 I dont think you can call 5 years a temporary fling?! And she was a woman She said many times over i was the one....obviously not!
ScarLettIsle Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 i'm sorry soul bear - she had some issues.. hopefully next time will be better...
DSM-IV Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 You're fat You're ugly You're looking old You look like a man I look better than you. (Have said this, and it has been true)
carhill Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Let me explain this to you in words you can understand
Author Soul Bear Posted August 10, 2009 Author Posted August 10, 2009 Let me explain this to you in words you can understand Loud and Clear!! You're fat You're ugly You're looking old You look like a man I look better than you. (Have said this, and it has been true) What kind 'people' have you been dating?! i'm sorry soul bear - she had some issues.. hopefully next time will be better... I hope so too. More than anything I hope, for her sake, she fix up and look sharp
DSM-IV Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Baahahah I only used the "I look better than you" line to the girl who cheated. It was actually true, though, I did. I was a model and she was insecure. Thus why she cheated, and thus why me saying that was extra fun.
Author Soul Bear Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 I used to Model, and I am insecure to an extent. I dont believe in myself looks wise, (the irony) yet im always told by many women on a multiple scale i could have any girl I want?! Personality wise, I know I rock hahahaha I have been out the game so long I forgotten how to play it. I think this insecurity comes from putting my ex before me for SO long... I hate modelling, lost so many friends who just became pretentious gits. I was offered a job a few weeks ago and I said no- im done!
DSM-IV Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Oh you're an ex model huh? Pics or lies. Many people have told me they are models...
borbiusle Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Ummm wow, that's quite tame compared to the venom I used to spew . I won't even bother posting it, I'll probably end up offending half the site lol.
georgia girl Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Please, just leave me alone. Yes, it is your mess. But, I'm fairly resilient. I'll clean it up myself. This is my problem now - not yours. I'll handle it as soon as you leave me alone. No, I don't hate you. I have lost considerable respect for you but that's to be expected. Regardless of circumstances, you let me down. No, we can't be friends. I'm sorry, but I got hurt here, not you. I get to decide the friendship question. Just me, but I've been called a hard-a**ed b*tch.
ScarLettIsle Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 its not u - its ME... (bahhhhaaa) i just want to be friends i'm confused i need to be selfish now - and look out for me there's just nothing between us
Author Soul Bear Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 Thomas- It's ok, you dont have to believe me, and I dont have to prove myself. There are 4 people on this site who know me pretty well outside of LS and am sure they will confirm for you if you need it Consider them lies if you like, I didnt come here to talk about my past careers. The point is, is that it makes people self absorbed, mememe, pretentious, trumpet blowers (from what I have seen), and It can also have the opposite effect i.e raising insecurities.... Im curious, why do you feel the need to date people who are 'less attractive than you' by your standards....??- fat,ugly,look like men and not attractive....... WHy not go for someone who you are besotted by? Borbiusle- please embelsih a little Things to say as the dumpee... Please, just leave me alone. Yes, it is your mess. But, I'm fairly resilient. I'll clean it up myself. This is my problem now - not yours. I'll handle it as soon as you leave me alone. No, I don't hate you. I have lost considerable respect for you but that's to be expected. Regardless of circumstances, you let me down. No, we can't be friends. I'm sorry, but I got hurt here, not you. I get to decide the friendship question. hahaha- thats pretty good
DSM-IV Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Im curious, why do you feel the need to date people who are 'less attractive than you' by your standards....?? WHy not go for someone who you are besotted by? I have yet to come across someone in my league. lol jk jk, I'm really coming off as a narcissistic *** **** now. I'm only messing around. I do prefer girls slightly below me though really because girls in my exact league are the ones who cheat, expect you to buy diamonds everyday, etc. etc. Plus you want to hold SOME power over them... But come on, I just want to see one pic dammit. Are you a guy or girl?
georgia girl Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 I used every single line and meant every single word.
Author Soul Bear Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 Well considering I refer to my ex fiance as woman, I am a guy. SO im afraid there is no w a n k i n g material for you. Although you said your ex's looked like men, so Im a little scared now. At least you are being semi-honest about your reasons for dating fat ugly chicks who look like old men. A relationship is not about a game of power tho, it's compramise and respect, there is a balance there, and there should be no fight for having power over the other, feeling like you are 'better' than them. Relationships like that are doomed. For there is no love there. Just self love. I want to embelish more, as there is some psychology behind this, but I dont know you, and you are helping me so I will leave it at that
Author Soul Bear Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 I used every single line and meant every single word. Good for you Seriously, so proud of you right now
DSM-IV Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 At least you are being semi-honest about your reasons for dating fat ugly chicks who look like old men. Lol um. I said slightly below me, not a whole different league. I don't think slightly below a calvin klein model = fat and ugly.
Author Soul Bear Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 Lol um. I said slightly below me, not a whole different league. I don't think slightly below a calvin klein model = fat and ugly. Sorry bro, was just copy pasteing what you wrote Why not look for someone who ISNT a model, genuinely cares for you and doesnt expect diamonds and champagne but is above your league? They are out there bro...this worls is full of BEAUTIFUL people on the INSIDE as well as the outside
DSM-IV Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Where are you from soul bear? I'd love to meet some of them LOL. We could go out sometime and find em.
Author Soul Bear Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 Im from Scotland! Lived all over the world tho, so I have met many many women from many places. In fact one of them I met whilst i was with my ex...we just clicked and she is WOWOW!! Nothing ever came of it tho, I still loved my ex... The special ones come up when you are not looking for them....That's how I met my ex....they find you!! Im only 24, but I left home and school when i was 15, so i guess i have many more to meet yet
DSM-IV Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Lol I'd tell you to come to PA and we could go find us some but............... PA sucks.
ScarLettIsle Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 u two are insane... lmao my fav line of all time... is F&%K YOU!!! works as the dumper and dumpee... but that in itself requires a bit of emotion and most people aren't worth it
Author Soul Bear Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 u two are insane... lmao my fav line of all time... is F&%K YOU!!! works as the dumper and dumpee... but that in itself requires a bit of emotion and most people aren't worth it LMAO- How're we insane?! I agree a good ol' F**K YOU can do wonders. I would still rather graciously back away and let her realise her venom was uncalled for
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