smookie Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Ok long story short here as alot of people know my past situation. I broke up with my ex 2 months ago, was a very very unhealthy relationship that was verbal and physical abuse over the corse of 7 years. Both set of parents can not stand either of us. He calls his whole family names like mad, I love my family like mad. I broke up with him as my birthday wish was for him to leave. Harsh I know but true. Question is : Why is it only on the weekends that I miss him? why ??? durning the week I am as busy as I am durning the week. (I am a onsite property manager to 64 suites) I was just talking to a close friend of mine and relized this and it is now bugging me. I am still glad that we are not together, I do not want him back, I do wish him the best of luck in finding a woman that he is more compatable with. But even with this I miss him at times... ( he also drove me crazy with his little things that he says he will never change) ie: picking his nose, not picking up at all after himself and telling my kids to pick his things up,(kids do not like him one bit now) close minded to anyones thoughts and has to always try his hardest to convince them that they are wrong and getting mad when he can not. Anyways why is it that at times I miss him like that..... I know I post alot but I love the replys and peoples thoughts to things Thanks
Soul Bear Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Sounds like Romeo and Juliette...... Be careful what you wish for
georgia girl Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 My guess is that you miss being a couple and having someone who thinks you're special - even if the times are bad. That's what I missed so desperately when my ex and I broke up. I was so used to being part a couple and doing couple things with our couple friends that I suddenly felt out of place and isolated. But think of this: you recognized an unhealthy relationship and got out. That was the single, most important step you could have taken. Now, you are free to find someone new and build a healthy relationship. Concentrate on enjoying activities that you like on the weekends. Plan one thing for one of the two weekend nights. I used Saturday because I was too exhausted on Friday. Once I started filling the weekends, the getting-over-you part was a lot easier. We are trying again, but I have a plan that no matter what (regardless of whether my ex-BF and I really do get back together) that I get one of the weekend days for me and my girlfriends. That way, no one can steal my weekends ever again.
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