angelface78 Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Its been 2 months of NC....and i just cant take it anymore. Although i dont have any urges to contact him..i keep looking at his stupid myspace. He puts headlines up there that hurt. He does it on purpose cause he knows i look. I know he is always looking at my profile also. In the past we have had to major breakups that lasted 3 months each. This is our third and i think the final one. When we got back together after past breakups he confessed that he was always looking at my myspace profile. We are both obsessed. I know he is sooo proud and just will never call me and i will not call him so i know its over for good this time. I WONT CALL BECAUSE I WAS ALWAYS THE ONE THAT FIXED EVERY PROBLEM IN THE RELATIONSHIP. It just hurts so bad!! We were engaged and i returned the ring ;( I miss him soo much and hate him sooo much!! This is never going to f***ing end. I have been thru hell with this guy. Im never going to get over him and the worse part is he knows it. I know he loves me but he has a huge ego and that is why he is not ready to be married..but i cant keep waiting until he grows up. Somebody please help me ;(
Ronni_W Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Hugs, Angel. I'm sorry about your broken engagement. Have you considered breaking that destructive and soul-sucking cycle you're in by just deleting his MySpace and blocking him from yours? Kind of, if you don't change something then nothing will change. As you say, he's not ready to commit to marriage. There's a case to be made that it's better for you to have found it out his current nature before you got stuck with a 'boy' with a huge ego and unhealthy pride. I know it hurts and it's difficult. But maybe doing a 'disconnect' on MySpace will help you detach, as you must. Sending hugs and healing.
CaliGuy Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Delete MySpace. Get a facebook account. Block him on FB. Problem solved.
silic0ntoad Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 I didn't delete my myspace, because my old email was inactive. I simply scrambled the password to something I couldn't remember and changed it. Then I used controls on my comp to stop me from going to it. All in all, after the break up, I checked her sh*t twice because I was suspicious she was cheating on me. Well, it hurt more than it helped. So she can have it her way- play the saint and delete the crap and stop the mind games. You're hurting yourself more than anyone hun. Have to stop all contact of any kind to truly move on. -Brian
Author angelface78 Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 I feel like a fool u guys are so right!!!
EmperorR Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 What i did is block myspace and facebook ok my computer through firefox because I was weak for awhile
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