hew Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Its amazing to think that the most popular people in school have nothing better to do than pick on you. My ex and i have been broken up for about 3 and a half months now and it was HARD moving on and getting my head back on straight but i did it. and now i could care less about that disgusting weirdo. But all of a sudden im hearing stories about his new "friends" ( one a girl and one a guy) talking bad about me and they have a code name for me over facebook. i deleted them from it but they re added me and added me on msn. and so i just accepted them. but i finally got rid of them once i saw "wall to wall" and read what they wrote. I just hate that my ex HATES me now and makes fun of me still with his friends.. school is in a month and dont want to carry last years drama into the brand new school year. it really gets to me when peopel hate me .. what should i do ? and not to mention to get to work i have to walk by the girls work and i have co-workers that are freinds with her...
boogieboy Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 They only have the power to get to you if YOU let them get to you. If you ignore them, their making fun means nothing. You could look down on them and realize how immature theyre being, a lil arrogance will help you ignore them for now.
Ronni_W Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 hew, I'm sorry you're going through this. Even when one has high self-esteem and self-confidence, it still can be very...disturbing, distressing and demoralizing. I don't have much to suggest. Other than, if it gets too much and starts to feel as if you're being bullied/harassed, perhaps you could speak with a school counselor/guidance officer and find out your best options. Hopefully, though, they will soon grow up and find different, healthier ways to deal with their hostility and rage (FWIW, usually that is SELF-hatred that gets turned outward and directed at others.) Good luck at school -- academically and personally.
Thornton Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 I once dated someone who worked with me, and after we broke up he did pretty much the same thing as your ex is doing - he and his little friends at work (who hardly even knew me) called me names and said nasty things about me. At the time, my ex and his friends were aged around 28, which just goes to show that some people never grow out of being childish and spiteful. One of his friends was aged 40 - way past the age where he should have been engaging in such childish name-calling. My ex had even persuaded this 40 yr old guy to break my office computer on purpose so I couldn't get any work done. In the end, all I could do was ignore them. It made me kind of glad that I broke up with my ex, because when I saw how he was behaving I realised what a spiteful childish idiot he really was, and I was well rid of him. I suggest you do the same - hold your head high and ignore your ex - he's being the childish one here, not you. If he's seriously harrassing you then report it to the authorities at school. Oh, and remember to feel glad that you're no longer with such a spiteful idiot!
Author hew Posted August 11, 2009 Author Posted August 11, 2009 thanks everyoneee:) yeah its just hurtful and especailly when your the innocent one who really did nothing? ugh whatever.
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