Sanafa Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 And would PM you but I can't so here goes. I am curious, and of course you don't have to answer - Would you have ever thought after being a BS that you would wind up being the OW? Interested because it follows ( or maybe supports) the theory that unless you have truly met someone that you connect with you cannot say with certainty what you would do? Just curious
ForumFool Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Sanafa I am wondering if you need to go into settings or user cp and turn pm on? You have 100 posts you should be able to pm and get pms. By asking TC in the forum you make the whole thread open to all and maybe that is not a safe thing for TC to be doing right now?
tami-chan Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 LOL...whoa! I was doing some work and clicked back to LS and this sorta jumped up on me...I thought "oh no, what did I do now?"..hehe..:lmao:! Would you have ever thought after being a BS that you would wind up being the OW? Interested because it follows ( or maybe supports) the theory that unless you have truly met someone that you connect with you cannot say with certainty what you would do? Just curious This is almost like a rhetorical question. But the answer is of course, a no-brainer-"no"
tami-chan Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Sanafa I am wondering if you need to go into settings or user cp and turn pm on? You have 100 posts you should be able to pm and get pms. By asking TC in the forum you make the whole thread open to all and maybe that is not a safe thing for TC to be doing right now? Hi there ForumFool ! Thanks for your post...I don't think anyone will attack me here...it would just be to obvious.
Author Sanafa Posted August 10, 2009 Author Posted August 10, 2009 And of course Tami doesn't have to answer....... (still don't see a PM option) Regardless I will not be around the better part of the day as work calls:p
GreenEyedLady Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 It has nothing to do with whether someone was a BS or not, it all has to do with low morals and no or little boundaries. SunRay, I think you got the question wrong. It wasn't: Why do BS's post rude and nasty remarks in the OW forum? GEL
StoptheDrama Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 <--------- Not a betrayed spouse. Your status is irrelevant; you're being a cyber bully and that's pathetic.
me003 Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 It has nothing to do with whether someone was a BS or not, it all has to do with low morals and no or little boundaries. SunRays... I'm glad this question was directed to Tami C.
GreenEyedLady Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 <--------- Not a betrayed spouse. Doesn't matter if you are or not, still the same answer: no morals and no boundaries. Funny that you have something in common with people you abhor so completely... GEL
ForumFool Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Hi there ForumFool ! Thanks for your post...I don't think anyone will attack me here...it would just be to obvious. Anytime TC... I always try to have a posting bud's back. Sana I am gonna look at my user CP and see if I can figure out how to help you with pm..I know when I first joined it drove me crazier not to be able to pm
White Flower Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 And would PM you but I can't so here goes. I am curious, and of course you don't have to answer - Would you have ever thought after being a BS that you would wind up being the OW? Interested because it follows ( or maybe supports) the theory that unless you have truly met someone that you connect with you cannot say with certainty what you would do? Just curious I can answer the question too. No. I suppose you are right about having met someone that I connected with and yes, it surprised me to have begun the A before I truly set the D in motion. The D was in the planning stages in my mind and it had been on the table but I wasn't actively pursuing it until after I met MM. I could not have been with anyone else at the time nor do I find myself able to be now with any other man. It was that connection you speak of. And nobody can agree or understand it until it happens to them. I don't have MM now and probably never will. I am glad he came into my life and showed me that I could no longer live without true love, even if that meant I couldn't have him either. I won't force myself to live with a man I don't love and I won't force a man who loves me to live with me. It is my hope that others would set free those who don't love them as well.
ForumFool Posted August 11, 2009 Posted August 11, 2009 Sana I looked all over the site and from what I understand you just need to be here a little longer to pm..thats how I understood all the info on it anyhow
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