harmon25 Posted August 9, 2009 Posted August 9, 2009 I've never posted on here so just wanna give my story briefly. 21 yo male end of junior year college in May ex told me things didnt feel right, needed break and space. I gave it to her. We talked here and there in June but did our own thing. Saw her once in July, said she didnt feel the same anymore, we broke up oficially 2 days later. Been like this for a month or so now. It has been difficult. We still talk here and there, but I am progressing in this. To be honest June was one of the worst times of my life. Confusion, anger, loneliness. I have been getting back out there, talking to girls, made out with 2 already. I'm kind of in an anger phase in the break up when I think of her and everything that happened and how she ended it. She still texts me sometimes, did a few nights ago- thursday and friday. Friday nearly 1 am to tell me about a bar she was at I just didnt answer. Why does she do this!? Broke down today saw facebook pics of her think she hooked up with some guy it bothered me. So I texted her just asking about that bar from friday, ugh. Anyway we go to school together, have the same friends and I don't know how things will be going back to school. Any suggestions on how to handle those situations? Also I feel like I get in "streaks" where I am ok, not thinking of her much (like this weekend) but then I break down and text/AIM or think of her again. When she does text me should I completely ignore it or be brief? I have just tried being very brief with her. Any advice on the situation or in general would be great.
adamt Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 To start with you need to remove her from your facebook, probably block her too. Stop responding to her text messages. Having the same friends is tricky. If you want
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