One ? for the guys...breast size? what's ideal?

[ruthe1]

Not sure if this column I found online is recent.

 

According to a recent poll taken on a leading research survey website, out of over 1,650 male respondents, only 17% stated that a woman's ideal breast size is below a C cup. That left a substantial number (83%) of all men surveyed, who stated that they preferred a woman with a C cup size, or larger. Additionally, 26% stated that a B cup was the smallest cup size they would consider when looking for potential mates, and 20% agreed that breast size was absolutely crucial in a woman's overall sexual appeal.

 

Of curse there are numerous surveys on this issue. But the consensus is breast size matters I read a few different surveys before posting the findings. Alot of the surveys looked at culture. It seemed that white males were more concerned with breast size than anything. While blacks and hispanics prefere curves and the back side. All you ladies (like myself) who sport A cups, I guess we need to find a Hispanic lover or black man who will accept our boobs.

[Jersey Shortie]

LOL, and continuing to horizontal mambo with that gene pool (the men who differentiate women based on breast size) perpetuates at the genetic level the very psychology some women appear to despise. It's all about choice. You can't change a man, but you can change men. Choose wisely

 

You often make suggestions such as this. Insinuating that everything is women's responsiblity to manage. I would like to see men step up to the plate on so many levels. Instead of being drones to each other.

 

 

Then .. it's up to women not to give in on pressure..

 

Agree. That is why I think if women remained true to themselves and learned to enjoy their god-given bodies AND if men stood by them and truly supported them and stopped buying itno a false ideal, we overall I think would see better relationships. But part of the problem are suggestion above where some men hold women entirely responsible for everything and conceed any effort on their part, as illustrated by Carhill.

[fral945]

There is no ideal, but I prefer pretty big (D cup or larger). Even if they carry a little extra weight. I would take slightly overweight with larger breasts vs. fit with smaller breasts. Now if they are significantly overweight that's a different story.

[ruthe1]

You said you felt like you made up in other areas what you said you were lacking in others. And yes, it's that mentality that somehow if you don't have huge boobs you must be "lacking" in someway. I'd like to see that idea change.

 

 

 

As someone with an A-cup, I don't have a hard time getting glance and looks from other men. That's completely unrelated to my personality. And usually, women that have bigger chests tend to be more curvy or heavy all around. Ask those same men if they want their partner to loose weight, you might find the unrealistic expectations that 60% do want their partner to loose weight, 20% are happy with their partner and 3% thinks they need to gain weight. Statistics like those are really hard to pin down to really give a clear picture.

 

You would get twice as many looks with a C+ cup. All percentages aside, boob size matters for more men than not.

[carhill]

You often make suggestions such as this. Insinuating that everything is women's responsiblity to manage. I would like to see men step up to the plate on so many levels. Instead of being drones to each other.

 

Nope, I say women have choices. You choose who you f*ck and who fathers your children and who socializes young men to fixate on breast size. It's really as simple as that. You can change this, one man at a time. But, more than likely, you'll be attracted to the man who ogles women's boobs and makes crude remarks; you will have his children and you will b*tch about what an ogre he is, but yet still stay with him.

 

It's what women do

[utterer of lies]

You would get twice as many looks with a C+ cup. All percentages aside, boob size matters for more men than not.

 

That's true, of course. It's just that some men prefer small boobs (athletic or model-style girls) and others prefer large ones (and don't mind if the girl is chubby).

[CaliGuy]

That's not true. Men are able to get surgical enhancements. The truth is, women are put on more pressure then men for it. And just because women "can" get them, doesn't mean it's really better that we have that option.

 

I don't know what man in his right mind would risk getting his "jimmy jammed". That's a sensitive body part with little tolerance for messing around. I say if you're insecure about your manhood, learn to excel in 'other' areas

 

Boob jobs are fairly simply procedures without much risk (that I am aware of). Suffice to say it's very common for women to get them. As I said, my last two exes got them (after we broke up, CaliGuy does not pay for boobs!).

[CaliGuy]

You would get twice as many looks with a C+ cup. All percentages aside, boob size matters for more men than not.

 

For some men it does. It's the last thing I care about in regards to a woman.

 

I prefer shapely legs, pouty lips, beautiful hair/skin tone and a NICE BUTT > boob size.

 

Maybe I am weird that way, but I don't see a woman with big boobs and think "Oh man, I gotta have that...."

 

I guess I'm one of the few men who can have a woman with an "A" cup and not be concerned.

[Jersey Shortie]

You would get twice as many looks with a C+ cup. All percentages aside, boob size matters for more men than not.

 

I think Life is wat too varied to say that. I have been out with girlfriends with bigger breasts and I never received less attention then they did. There were men that were interested in them, and just as many interested in me.

 

Nope, I say women have choices. You choose who you f*ck and who fathers your children and who socializes young men to fixate on breast size. It's really as simple as that. You can change this, one man at a time. But, more than likely, you'll be attracted to the man who ogles women's boobs and makes crude remarks; you will have his children and you will b*tch about what an ogre he is, but yet still stay with him.

 

It's what women do

 

Well, I am not attracted to those type of men at all actually. But sorry. It's such a scapegoat to put all responsibilty on women and take none for yourself. I am sorry but I find that mentality really offesive and actually quite lazy. Sounds like you are are blaming or saying that men are the way they are because of women. And I find that completely ridiculous. Men are the way they are because of the choices men make and who they decide to be.

 

 

I don't know what man in his right mind would risk getting his "jimmy jammed". That's a sensitive body part with little tolerance for messing around. I say if you're insecure about your manhood, learn to excel in 'other' areas

 

Boob jobs are fairly simply procedures without much risk (that I am aware of). Suffice to say it's very common for women to get them. As I said, my last two exes got them (after we broke up, CaliGuy does not pay for boobs!).

 

Boobs are just as sensitive and delicate CaliGuy. I think you only hold that perception because it is infact true that its more common for women to get them then it is for men. However, common doesn't mean that it's a simple procedure without risk. The truth remains, men are much harder on women and their bodies then women are on men. And is the number one reason why men don't get preasured to go to the extent that women get preasured to go to.

[clv0116]

Lies. They say that to sound like "nice guys". I know from experience which I won't go into. The order of preference for the majority of guys goes like this:

 

1)Large, shapely, nice-feeling natural breasts

2)Fake, shapely, nice-feeling breasts (in a reasonable size)

3)Small, shapely, nice-feeling natural breasts

4)Large, kinda wobbly natural breasts

5)Fake, slightly misshapen/odd-feeling breasts (in a reasonable size)

6)Small, saggy natural breasts

7)Utterly flat breasts

8)Abnormally humongous fake breasts.

 

Interesting way to do it. So by now you know I don't lie to sound like a nice guy, right? I'm here to say I think you're wrong. Maybe guys who haven't been with a variety of women might follow that list, and for the question of "what looks nice in a sweater" you're close, but for someone I'm going to have up close and naked, no way.

 

My list:

 

1. 30B-34C natural
2. 30A-34B natural
3. 34C-36D natural
4. Everything else

[clv0116]

You said you felt like you made up in other areas what you said you were lacking in others. And yes, it's that mentality that somehow if you don't have huge boobs you must be "lacking" in someway. I'd like to see that idea change.

 

 

 

As someone with an A-cup, I don't have a hard time getting glance and looks from other men.

 

For once we agree, I *like* a slimmer build. Big boobs look sort of interesting in clothes but often come attached to odd looking nipples, sag, etc. and in the end they're sort of fun but they're really for feeding babies.

[clv0116]

For some men it does. It's the last thing I care about in regards to a woman.

 

I'm a sucker for a pretty face. I just can't help it.

[RubySoho]

I have discussed this with plenty of male friends over the years and noticed that as men get older they become much more concerned with the shape and texture of breasts, rather than the size.

 

Remember that a twenty year old's 34C or D boobs are probably going to look pretty different six or seven years down the line! (Especially if her weight fluctuates, or she goes on and off the pill.)

 

I have small boobs and when I was younger I longed to be bigger in the bust. However, now Im in my mid to late twenties and they are still pointing at the sky. Okay so they are not striking to look at in a vest top or whatever it is Im wearing, but naked they look really great.

 

An mate of mine had a boob job and she also found that she'd lost all sensitivity in them. Where's the fun in that - for you or for your man?!

[Isolde]

Remember that a twenty year old's 34C or D boobs are probably going to look pretty different six or seven years down the line!

 

Not all big boobs are created alike. Some are saggy from the teen years and others don't get to that point until decades later.

 

The other thing about sagging is obvious, but needs to be stated anyway: women can't control perkiness(barring good bras, weight control and MAYBE some weight lifting in the pecs region) any more than cup size. There are plenty of women who stay slim but end up with sagging boobs at some point, and it's not necessarily pretty, but it's natural and doesn't reflect laziness or "letting herself go."

[Lizzie60]

 

Remember that a twenty year old's 34C or D boobs are probably going to look pretty different six or seven years down the line!

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WOW.. sorry.. but I am 57 .. I have huge boobs.. and I can still go without a bra... they are still very firm. My boobs (and my butt) has made my 'fortune' my 'renommée'... they still are..

 

but I have to say that I'm taking good care of them.. I massage them with good moisturizers. .. I keep them well packaged all night.. (have been sleeping with a sport bra for over 18 years now)...

[Lizzie60]

 

LMFAO. You have any pics to back this up? You keep them well packaged all night? Do you do exercises for them too, or just use moisturizers? Just wondering

 

well packaged is the best thing you can do to big breasts.. good support.. all the time.. check my avie.. I have no bra and that was taken less than 2 years ago..

[Lizzie60]

 

 

Wow. You sure do not look 57 years old. Are those real, if you don't mind me asking. All you do is keep them well supported? Nothing else?

 

Yes.. they are real.. all I do is moisturize them and support them MOST of the time.. sometimes I go without a bra.. just a camisole instead.. but not that often..

[Lizzie60]

 

Its a shame not everyone is that lucky. What in the world size are they, if you don't mind me asking.

 

 

38DD (I was told I was a 36F or G.. not sure).. I mainly wear 38DD (depending on the make) cause I can't find any sexy bra over that size that are comfortable..