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ex and i are talking again, do i tell him i hooked up with someone else?


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so my ex and i are talking again. we went to the movies last night. i refused to hook up with him because i dont want him to think he can just have me whenever he wants. he questioned me about a guy that keeps writing on my wall, calling and texting me and i told him he was just a friend. but he was wondering why i had his number.

 

i actually made out with this kid once, and he really likes me is always texting me really sweet things and calling me but im not attracted to him like that. he seems way too clingy and way too into me. anyway he texted me last night and i opened the text in front of my ex and my ex was kinda like hmm whos that. im one of those people that just feel guilty lying and keeping something from him. but hes a really jealous insecure person, so im scared he wouldnt be able to forget it if i told him.

 

do i tell my ex about him? and if i do should i tell him the kid just has an innocent crush or that i hooked up with him?

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he's ur ex. why would u explain anything to him??? ur life goes on - just as his went on.. he's not gonna tell u - he hooked up with some chick it limits his getting back in ur bed..

u say that the younger man is all sweet and clingly - but ur ex is insecure and jealous - its really the same thing you just have a higher attraction rate to your ex...

 

so be honest with the young one - so u don't jade him into becoming the man that u want to be with... insecure/jealous men are not sexy...

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