vee6winks Posted August 9, 2009 Posted August 9, 2009 Hello everyone, My boyfriend and I broke up after 6 years of dating. The relationship was not perfect by any stretch of the imagination but I truly believed we had a really special kind of bond. He broke up with me on a Thursday and when I went to his house on Sunday to talk to him about it...he had another woman there. We got into a huge fight and ended up not speaking for about 2 weeks. When we did speak - I asked if he loved this new woman - his only answer was...its different. He proceeded to say he didnt break up with me because he didnt love me. I told him (not is such nice words) to stuff it. I dodnt care what he had to say. I didnt care what he felt. I told him I moved on and he was all but forgotten. Of course I was heartbroken and I still am. Could he love this new woman? I have seen her picture (thanks to facebook) and she seems to be everything I am not. I feel like I am going through all this pain and I dont know which way to turn and how could he find love so quickly? Did i mean nothing to him? Does he not even miss me...not even a little? The day before he broke up wit me he told me he loved me. This is to all the guys out there...is this possible? Was he lying to me about loving me? Does he really love the new woman? Will this relationship with her work out? How do I find peace in this?
Adri Ana Posted August 9, 2009 Posted August 9, 2009 Probably he liked to be with her more ... Just calm down and learn from it . Do not get so upset . He was not for you . He betrayed now . He would betray afterwards . Forget him . Just one question : does he take any attempts to get back to you ?
Darren09 Posted August 9, 2009 Posted August 9, 2009 I loved my girl no matter what no other girl would of taken me away from her. Unlucky she left me because even now i wouldnt see another girl. Not untill i get completley over her and i wont use any 1 else to do that. I just want you to know there are guys out there that will lick the ground you walk on to be with you. You deserve someone like that hun. If he is with someone else its just not love. You dont leave person you love u do anything for them like me. Oh well :-(
Author vee6winks Posted August 9, 2009 Author Posted August 9, 2009 To Adri Ana - No - he makes no attempt to talk to me. I just dont understand.
Adri Ana Posted August 9, 2009 Posted August 9, 2009 To Adri Ana - No - he makes no attempt to talk to me. I just dont understand. Then you have all rights to spit on all his photos and start to hunt a better guy . He does not exist for you . Do not get upset . Smile to the world . You just learnt a lesson . F*ck him , there are so many who will love to be with you,dear . Then he starts to scratch his balls , but it will be late . Best of luck to you!
Devil Inside Posted August 9, 2009 Posted August 9, 2009 I doubt he loves this other girl...but he did choose her. In the big picture, whether he loves her or not...does it matter? He made the choice to end the relationship. It doesn't mean you are not lovable...it's just not going to work with him. Get out there and find your peace. Then eventually a new man will be in your life and you will find love again.
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