Darren09 Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 My relationship has been over for about a month now. She told me to ring her last night so i did and i asked her directly about this other guy and without hesitation she said " im not with anyone else", " i dont have another boyfriend" and towards the end of the conversation i started to get quite annoyed. I have been with this girl the majority of my teenage life, i dont know any different? I just cant get my head around the possible reason to why she would deny being in another relationship. After all she ended it with me and doesnt want owt to do with me. Friends is not an option i love her and it would never be a friendship. Shes left me so i guess i should stop thinkin that she wants me. its just my life without her is so **** and i just wanna be with her.
LucreziaBorgia Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 She isn't telling you because I suspect she feels that it would be less complicated if she denied it.
hoping2heal Posted August 9, 2009 Posted August 9, 2009 She doesn't need to admit to being anyone else, and you don't need to hear it. I understand you were with her most of your teenage life, and you don't know any different so your life feels devestating without her. This is perfectly normal, but it's also a perception of yours, it isn't REALITY. You need to cut ties with this girl, it's going to do nothing but give you heartburn to continue communicating with her. You may love her, but she no longer is in love with you, as evidenced by the fact she is not WITH you. Make no mistake about it, a man or a woman who is trully in love with you WILL be with you. You are doing yourself no favors staying in eachother's lives. I'm guessing you two just don't know any better right now, and that's okay. But now I'm informing you it isn't a good idea.
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