LePalsy Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 There's a girl I've been flirting with for a couple months now, we look a lot at each other and there has been enough flirting to be sure that something's going on.. but even tough sometimes she gazes at me deeply like she's really attracted and acts really nice, other times she seems kinda aggressive or even jealous, perhaps even of my own sister!? is that normal? We flirt a lot sometimes but I didn't make a move yet nor tried to talk to her, could the reason simply be frustation or is she just not that into me?
Hkizzle Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 Sounds like she's an insecure and jealous person. I've had friends date such people. That's not double personality though...... Just doesn't sound like a very workable long term partner.
MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 Maybe her tire of waiting for you to make a move turned into jealousy or anger? The jealousy toward your sister is a bit too much, IMO. You may want to rethink this.
Author LePalsy Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Maybe her tire of waiting for you to make a move turned into jealousy or anger? The jealousy toward your sister is a bit too much, IMO. You may want to rethink this. Maybe, more than 4 months of flirting without making a move is kind of a big fault on my part, how would the average girl react to this I wonder? I flirted with some girls before but nothing too serious nor for this long, and I didn't feel too attracted to them so it was easier to talk, this particular woman is also a few years older than me which makes it harder for me to start a conversation. And you're spot on Hkizzle, I do feel her insecurity sometimes as well, other times she's very confident, and it's a pretty noticeable difference in her mood.
Author LePalsy Posted August 9, 2009 Author Posted August 9, 2009 So what do you do when the flirting goes for too long without a clear move from the guy? I'm just trying to understand her behaviour.
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