College Sweethearts, im wondering if my ex will miss me even with new bf distracting.

[bolso4]

(Were 24, dated for 3 years, our firsts and college sweethearts).

B4 i continue, She's moving to the US for grad school in 14 days (Im in Canada).

 

Even though she's leaving, she got a new BF. He's best friend of 4 years, her ex boss. 32 years old. She's telling everyone that she's falling in love all over again. Even though I AM getting over her day by day...and im happy for it. Im worried that because she has a guy to wake up next to, or to take her places , or to look forward to seeing............that she wont miss me at all......like I've missed her (only child here, so hard not to notice her gone).

 

Is this normal to happen for women? Some women have told me that she probably hardly thinks of me now, but as soon as she goes to Illinois and is by herself in her small town, she'll find herself shocked in feeling the inevitable grief for me that she's postponed.

 

Just curious.

[fabulous_chk]

It's absolutely none of your businesss what she's thinking about.

[Dlyrica]

That probably is true..maybe you should find something to distract yourself as well..I don't necessarily mean a new woman, it could be a hobby, sport, anything really. Take care.

[Omega3]

(Were 24, dated for 3 years, our firsts and college sweethearts).

B4 i continue, She's moving to the US for grad school in 14 days (Im in Canada).

 

Even though she's leaving, she got a new BF. He's best friend of 4 years, her ex boss. 32 years old. She's telling everyone that she's falling in love all over again. Even though I AM getting over her day by day...and im happy for it. Im worried that because she has a guy to wake up next to, or to take her places , or to look forward to seeing............that she wont miss me at all......like I've missed her (only child here, so hard not to notice her gone).

 

Is this normal to happen for women? Some women have told me that she probably hardly thinks of me now, but as soon as she goes to Illinois and is by herself in her small town, she'll find herself shocked in feeling the inevitable grief for me that she's postponed.

 

Just curious.

 

Yes, she probably still thinks of you. Doesn't mean she'll come back either though. She'll also compare that guy to you, but again, doesn't mean she'll come back.

[Green]

you need to stop thinking about if shes thinking about u. Move on, distract yourself with the stuff in your life and for now forget her