She has "demonized" me to her family--thereby burning the bridge to reconciliation, r

[jcandelas]

After 9 months of living together she leaves over small arguement and now 90 days later [with almost zero contacr] has "demonized" me to all but her sister Margie and husband. They have apoligized for her behavior--she is 60 and feels she can just discard and trample lover after lover without regards to their feelings. She was very charming up to the last few days of our relationship- I loved her deeply. I expected to be blamed but this is cruel and not necessary. In her heart and soul she knows I am honest, trustworthy, and loyal, etc. Her co-workers say that she is very moody and they avoid her at all costs. She has burned all bridges. She still owes me $3200 for saving her home from mortgage and real estate tax foreclosure. How do I regain rightful image and recover from the "low life, evil person" she has convinced other family members? What? What? Please talk to me.

[katty774]

Just rest in ease that people that really know you and that know her will know the truth.

 

Those are the ones that actually really matter anyway. Just know that people will see thru her lies and deceit. I'm sure they've heard it all before about the ex before you.

 

Some people just have to try and make others look bad. Like I said those who know you will know better.

[Ronni_W]

JC, it seems like everybody (family and co-workers) already KNOW how she can be, so they likely ALREADY know that she was just trash-talking you without there being any/much substance to what she was saying.

 

My best guess is that you don't have to worry that she's managed to manipulate others to see you as "low-life, evil" -- just keep being the loving, kind, upstanding person that you are!

 

Still. It does suck to be on the receiving end of that...especially from someone you loved deeply.

Sending hugs and good wishes.