struckby Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 We have been dating a month and a half. For the last two and a half weeks we haven't seen each other since we are both on break at university. We are basically unofficially official is kinda how I would describe it..we both have told each other that we like each other. Recently, she sent me an email that said really nice and sweet things and that she has trouble communicating her feelings. Recently I started texting her really sweet and nice things but she rarely responds back the same way. So I asked her in a text if I was making her uncomfortable or anything and she said that she loved my texts but didn't know how to respond. To me, it would seem obvious how to respond but since she said she has trouble communicating how she feels I am really not sure. Are any of you like this? Can you please give me some insight? She is interested, but I just am unsure how much sometimes..
vertical Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I used to get this a lot actually. We would txt and txt and she would always sound like she was holding back, or just not interested. I asked her about it and she claimed that she didnt really know how to show her feelings because she hadnt really done it before. I think it is a sign of either one or two things, 1. She is really into you, and she is shy and scared of saying the wrong thing to throw you off. She wants to tell you everything but she fears it will ruin your relationship. 2. She is not that into you, but she still likes you enough to care for you and to date you. I used to go crazy thinking which one it could be. I ended up just believing and having trust in the 1st option. I decided i would take that option until i learned otherwise. And now she is very comfortable and she opens up to me all the time. I just had to wait for her is all. So believe that she is just shy, and dont try to force her to show you her feelings. Let her do it on her own. Move nice and slow if she likes, in the long run it will be worth it k?
Author struckby Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 I am pretty sure she is really into me. We make out whenever we see each other and she has said that we are perfect together. Also, sometimes when I say something really nice and sweet to her telling her how I feel about her in a certain way she will respond that she feels the same way about me. I guess I am just really confused sometimes..I just don't want to start thinking that she isn't interested at all and stop trying when it appears that she really is..it sounds like she is though right?
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