GoneButNotForgotten Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 Well after about 9 months I accidentally ended up text messaging my ex. After a few months of feeling good and thinking I have moved on I realized how much farther I really had to go. While I am comfortable with myself again, there apparently is a part of me not ready to let go. How did you guys find the ability to let go? I seriously thought I had and was feeling good and had confidence back but this shattered everything and I'm not really sure where to go from here. I'm just not sure I can give up that last little bit that I am holding on to. It has been a part of me for so long that I'm not sure where to go without it.
homebound Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 dude i feel ya man. Im in Iraq about to go home next week and after four years she's not going to be there at the airport to jump into my arms. But wow 9 months? Am I going to feel like that? Its hard enough out here but being home with so much more temptation to go beat her new boyfriends face in just makes things scarier to go back home.
hoping2heal Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 dude i feel ya man. Im in Iraq about to go home next week and after four years she's not going to be there at the airport to jump into my arms. But wow 9 months? Am I going to feel like that? Its hard enough out here but being home with so much more temptation to go beat her new boyfriends face in just makes things scarier to go back home. Why beat his face in? What did he do?
ScarLettIsle Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 not knowong a lot about ur situation - lemme say it was a deliberate subconcious act on ur part to randomly text the EX...(otherwise that # would have been deleted 8months ago) ok so that aside why would u want to remove every scrap of emotion that u had for this person - thats cheating urself of all the GOOD things - the true level of emotion (love) u allowed urself to attain... be thankful for their part in that RESPECT their part in that - love them from a distance in the purest way u can while u move on from where u are today...
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