heartbreakkid Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 My relationship is on the verge of ending. It's inevitable. I mean, how do I start over when she's all I've ever known? I dated her from age 18 to 26. I really don't want any "new hobbies," that's for sure. I don't have any single friends, since all of them are married or in relationships. I guess I know this has to end, but I don't even know where to start once it does end.
LoveLace Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 Married or not, tell your friends to please include you in any social activities they plan. It doesn't mean you HAVE to attend them all, but you should make the effort. I don't know if your interested in dating, but when your ready start with online dating, you know why? Because a lot of people there actually don't want to get serious, which is probably the same place you will be in for a while. Only you can help yourself here, because nothing external is going to do it all alone. Only you know what picks you up when you are down. But sometimes these things DO require new hobbies, weather you like it or not. Is there anything you've always wanted to do (that's not illegal and within reason) but haven't done yet?...do that! Do you like to read? Then read more. You'd be surprised how well new things in your life can help. But if you feel that you are depressed, it wouldn't hurt to talk to your doctor or get counseling. You are still so very young. Every new beginning comes from another beginning's end.
lokster Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 wow 8 years is tough, take time off, waste money on urself, go out and meet newer people, like people at work u didnt take notice off, or something, new experiences and environments hopefully will help. never know, you might bump into ur wife. you could try watching this Sitcom. How i met your mother.
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