rainbowbrite Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 it feels so good to get over my ex. we broke up a year ago, and I was SUCH a wreck, I had to go to therapy because I would cry every single day, I was so depressed, I couldn't handle it. I went strict NC for 3 months strait, and I still did not feel over it AT ALL. So I called him up, and then for 2 months or so we were talking daily for hours, and then he eventually took me on a date, nothing sexual happened or anything. But when I asked him to hang out again with me, he said no, it wasn't a date, and I feel nothing. So I decided to move on...Fast forward 2 weeks and the girl he dumped me for is back in the picture, leaving rude comments under a picture of me and him on his fb, I got it as a notification. So I left something rude back, because I do not deserve to be treated like that at all, she does not know me, or what I have been through. Anyway, this causes my ex to go into a hissy fit, and writes me like a 4 paragraph facebook hatemail, as to how pathetic I am, and how he doesn't give two shiiits about me, and he wants me out of his life, cuz he generally just does not care whatsoever. even though about a month earlier he took me on a date, paid for me, and told me after he cared about me. anyway he ends up blocking me on absolutely everything. and that is what helped me move on. the fact that he is so rediculous and mean , and how i know that i dont want someone like him in my life anymore, and how silly and immature he looks to write me hate mail and block me, i never got back to him, and i have stayed strict nc since then and its not been about 2 months, and i feel so great. i no longer feel yearning for him. so my advice to anyone out there not over your ex. do not EVER EVER EVER EVER talk to them if they dump you, they are talking to you for their own selfish reasons, go strict NC, block them if you must, and get over it cold turkey, the longer you wait, the longer this will be a hard journey. I just had to find that out the lonnnngggg way. good luck
hew Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 way to go !!!!!!!! its great to be over your ex eh ? im over mine to. i finally see his true colors and im glad im not like that. you clearly deserve the best and no one is to ever be treated poorly. my ex is still saying things about me and getting people to hate me:( and i just wrote a post about it. but im over him. theres so so so so so soooooooo many great peopel out there i guess you just need to go through all the ickyyy guys to find your man im sooooooooo happpy you feel better because you should feeel soooo on top of the world without him. ahahah just as i do. but i guess it just goes to show peopel for who they really are in the end. like sure we made our mistakes and did things wrong but honestly it gets outtaa hand. but congrats girllllly !
moo Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 nowhere near over me ex...still working on it...still suffering, but still hanging in there and still NC.
Bleed Internal Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Only about 80% over my ex, but NC helps that number go higher everyday. Feels great!
Nedved Posted August 12, 2009 Posted August 12, 2009 Its been almost 3 months since my ex broke up with me and i think i can finally see the finish line myself. The worst of it seems to be over and i'm feeling better. Still get the odd urge to call but far less frequent and i think of her less I have a date friday night with a nice girl and i'm looking forward to it. Not expecting to much but its the 1st date i've been on since the break up so we'll see how it go's.
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