DustySaltus Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 How does a girl go from " I want to spend the rest of my life with you" to "I'm glad I was with a guy like you because it showed me exactly the type of person I DON'T want to be with" in a matter of three days?? No cheating, nothing crazy occured just POOF...................wtf???
trueblue72ny Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 How does a girl go from " I want to spend the rest of my life with you" to "I'm glad I was with a guy like you because it showed me exactly the type of person I DON'T want to be with" in a matter of three days?? No cheating, nothing crazy occured just POOF...................wtf??? that is a mystery to me. i dont get it either. i would say do not chase after her, beg or plead or cry to her. suck it up as best as you can and hit the road with no contact. disappear. become a mystery to her. i mean if nothing happened and you just got that line over nothing - that's crazy. how are you supposed to trust someone like that. imagine moving in with her like that? one day things seem fine, the next you are getting a knife in the dark. besides going no contact allows you to not feel like a jerk down the road saying something you wish you didnt. its you who comes across as the better person over it.
Leveller Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I can only echo Trueblue's advice. I think it is grounded and well founded.
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