Devil Inside Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I get what you mean. That's quite an example. LOL:lmao: Sadly based on a true story...don't ask!
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Sadly based on a true story...don't ask! (Stifling a laugh) OK.
2sunny Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 Men picture most women naked and also picture themselves having sex with them too. It's just the way a guys mind works. Funny thing is (one of my male buddies told me this) it happens quickly, within the first 20 seconds.. Just know he's thinking it, or has thought it at some point. i think this is only true when the man finds the woman attractive or sexy in some way.
bac Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 If that guy looks at you, he probably likes you. That does not exclude that he is just a player and it is a part of his game. I dislike the opposite thing that guys typically do. For example, you have the first date with a guy, and you look really hot, wearing a short skirt and a tight top. You put it all for him to check it out. But, he does not look at your body intentionally. He just looks at your eyes and is afraid of looking at any other place on your body. I wonder why guys do that.
You'reasian Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I must be doing something wrong somewhere. There was a guy I saw in a coffee shop. He was glancing at me so much I decided to walk up to him. I did the direct would-you-like-to-go-out line and he turned all shy and declined. What's with that?! So my guy friends told me I shouldn't have gone for direct. If you'd asked me out in a coffee shop, I would have followed up with "what time?" I'm comfortable with this, unless you were grotesque, which I doubt you are.
vertical Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I dislike the opposite thing that guys typically do. For example, you have the first date with a guy, and you look really hot, wearing a short skirt and a tight top. You put it all for him to check it out. But, he does not look at your body intentionally. He just looks at your eyes and is afraid of looking at any other place on your body. I wonder why guys do that. We do that because we hear girls say "all he does is look at my boobs" way too much. If i knew a girl actually wanted me to look down instead of at her eyes, i would.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 i think this is only true when the man finds the woman attractive or sexy in some way. That has to be one of the most basic critieria. But I'm not sure that happens with each woman the man finds attractive or sexy.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 If that guy looks at you, he probably likes you. Just that? Really? I dislike the opposite thing that guys typically do. For example, you have the first date with a guy, and you look really hot, wearing a short skirt and a tight top. You put it all for him to check it out. But, he does not look at your body intentionally. He just looks at your eyes and is afraid of looking at any other place on your body. I wonder why guys do that. I've noticed that!:bunny: I've also noticed how their faces looked so "bloated," as if they were going to burst from avoiding looking neck down. I have to avoid bursting out in laughter when I see that.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 If you'd asked me out in a coffee shop' date=' I would have followed up with "[i']what time[/i]?" I'm comfortable with this, unless you were grotesque, which I doubt you are. I think you're cute. Would you like to go out with me?
LePalsy Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 Sometimes we do but personally if I give her a hard stare it's probably because I find her really attractive, but I don't picture her naked immediatly. On the other hand If a guy looks at you ass, breasts or looks at you from head to toe then he's probably thinking of you naked.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Sometimes we do but personally if I give her a hard stare it's probably because I find her really attractive, but I don't picture her naked immediatly. On the other hand If a guy looks at you ass, breasts or looks at you from head to toe then he's probably thinking of you naked. So you were conscious that you were hard staring at the girls? For a while, I did wonder whether a particular guy that hard stared at me was really just unaware of his actions.
You'reasian Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I think you're cute. Would you like to go out with me? Are you a real female and not some dude? Sure.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Are you a real female and not some dude? Sure. 100 percent! Now you can start being a little more excited about our date.
You'reasian Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 100 percent! Now you can start being a little more excited about our date. OK!!!
bac Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 We do that because we hear girls say "all he does is look at my boobs" way too much. If i knew a girl actually wanted me to look down instead of at her eyes, i would. OK, we really say it because we are proud of that deep inside, but, on the other hand, we do not want to sound needy of your guys visual attention. In other words, yes, we complain about that, but we do that because it is our way to bring it up how sexy we are and let everybody know about that. During the first date I expect a man to look at my body 1-2 times, but not too long.
vertical Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 OK, we really say it because we are proud of that deep inside, but, on the other hand, we do not want to sound needy of your guys visual attention. In other words, yes, we complain about that, but we do that because it is our way to bring it up how sexy we are and let everybody know about that. During the first date I expect a man to look at my body 1-2 times, but not too long. Well thats news to me. I do look at the body about 1-3 times during a date, but i try to do it when she doesnt notice or after a conversation. When she is talking to me i like to look her in the eyes. But now that i am in a serious relationship i have already seen her naked, so it isnt that hard to stare and "wonder".
alphamale Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 1. Do guys stare at women they find attractive and instantly picture the women naked? 2. Are there any particular kind of stares that are tell-tale signs that the guys are doing the picturing? For example, hard stares or stares with a slight smile? 3. Guys on LS, which of you do that? If so, when was the last time you were doing the picturing? no, no & not me
boogieboy Posted August 9, 2009 Posted August 9, 2009 OK, we really say it because we are proud of that deep inside, but, on the other hand, we do not want to sound needy of your guys visual attention. In other words, yes, we complain about that, but we do that because it is our way to bring it up how sexy we are and let everybody know about that. During the first date I expect a man to look at my body 1-2 times, but not too long. And this is exactly why I dont look at a dates body at all. Dont need to. She already passed my body criteria before, and in time, I'll either see her naked or I wont. No need to look. Great game to play when she dresses up and then wonders why Im not checking out the goods. Its great.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 10, 2009 Author Posted August 10, 2009 And this is exactly why I dont look at a dates body at all. Dont need to. She already passed my body criteria before, and in time, I'll either see her naked or I wont. No need to look. Great game to play when she dresses up and then wonders why Im not checking out the goods. Its great. That's the thing. I don't like dates leering at my body but I would wonder why he doesn't if I didn't catch him glance even once. Sometimes guys can look so cute doing the let-me-try-and-catch-a-glance-while-she's-not-looking. We know you're looking though!
SierraRose Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 1. Only if they're social retards. You don't stare, you glimpse. As far as picturing them naked goes, I think that's a lot of mental work. We can appreciate nice features without trying to visualize the whole package. It's probably very similar to the way women look at men they find attractive. 2. If a man is staring at you, you may have a lazy eye or something in your teeth. Staring is probably not something you want to encourage, especially if they're ogling you. :lmao::lmao:LMAO:lmao::lmao:
Author MissHollywood Posted August 20, 2009 Author Posted August 20, 2009 I don't think this was touched on. Do guys jerk off by fantasizing a woman they're attracted to but don't know? Like someone they saw at the gym or bar? Do guys remember them afterward while getting busy?
carhill Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 Do guys jerk off by fantasizing a woman they're attracted to but don't know? Like someone they saw at the gym or bar? Do guys remember them afterward while getting busy?I never have. Regardless of assistive imagery, the emotional process always includes the familiar and generally the intimate; people with whom I have close emotional bonds. I can separate the image from the emotion and emotional visualization.
Jersey Shortie Posted August 20, 2009 Posted August 20, 2009 It doesn't bother me that a man will find a woman attractive and think about her naked or having sex wit her. What bothers me is the amount most guys do this and then expect women to think their so adorable for it and laugh about it. It sucks being a woman because men don't really much care about loyalty in the face of all the options they love entertaining themselves with. When guys say this kind of stuff: 1) Many men will picture women they find attractive naked. Some men don't, but most of the men that say they don't are lying, haha. I think of some hairy Gorilla with drool coming out of the side of his mouth and laughing like he has a mental-handicap and bouncing Back and forth between his feet. I know that sounds funny but I really do! It's that old-boys-club mentality of the "wink, wink, nudge, nudge aren't men great because they picture lots of women naked", and *that* is apparently what alot of men thinks define them. I think men can be better then that personally and that's why I hate when guys revert to comments like "all men do it and if they didn't they aren't men!" It sucks seeing how many men define themselves through women. No, women (or at least me) don't undress men in their minds. I certainly don't imagine having sex with them, or at least not at the same time as I take in their attractiveness or when I just see them. I am more likely to picture a man having sex with me then I am to picture what his body looks liked naked. And the only time I will do this, is when I am very attracted to a man. And when I am attracted to a man, it's not always just because he has the best looking body around. Its because I feel more then a physical attraction.
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