Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 It's not like I sit around all day just bringing up images...but maybe after I am hanging out with an attractive female I may get an image in my head. Intense gaze...a little creepy. I find a little smile is less intimidating and friendly...I think I would bust up if I tried to gaze. Maybe he was trying to hypnotize you... I think he was trying to stare me into something, what that something is, I don't know.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 I know you all know...you do powerful things to our weak male minds...please be kind. And your weak male minds do things our female minds usually don't (or perhaps biologically can't?)!
Devil Inside Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I think he was trying to stare me into something, what that something is, I don't know. Or maybe he was trying to stare you out of something!
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Women have better peripheral vision than men........ Oh peripheral (I wrote it as parallel but I was thinking of the same). I like to use my peripheral vision to my advantage.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Or maybe he was trying to stare you out of something! LOL. If so, he really wasn't discreet at all. And not skilful enough, I may add. I think the most skilful ones at it would be someone gazing, conjuring whatever image he wants to and doesn't come across as creepy.
Devil Inside Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 So tell me about the most skilled guy that has picked you up...let get out a pad and pen first.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 So tell me about the most skilled guy that has picked you up...let get out a pad and pen first. He looked for a while, gave me a playful smile and told me how boring the party was. He played to what I was thinking and he probably knew I needed a rescue (which is a skill). That, to me, is smooth and quick (before his gaze crept me out). What was your most skilled pick-up line/situation with a woman? My pad and pen are ready.
Devil Inside Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 He looked for a while, gave me a playful smile and told me how boring the party was. He played to what I was thinking and he probably knew I needed a rescue (which is a skill). That, to me, is smooth and quick (before his gaze crept me out). What was your most skilled pick-up line/situation with a woman? My pad and pen are ready. Hmmmm...I'm not exactly Don Juan, but I do alright. Lets see...when I was younger I used to go into a coffee shop all the time because the barrista was a hottie. I finally told her one day..."hey, you know I don't drink coffee...so would you please give me yuor number already." She thought it was cute.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Hmmmm...I'm not exactly Don Juan, but I do alright. Lets see...when I was younger I used to go into a coffee shop all the time because the barrista was a hottie. I finally told her one day..."hey, you know I don't drink coffee...so would you please give me yuor number already." She thought it was cute. That was cute. So did you guys end up going out? See, there are many things you men can do that women may not be able to pull off as easily. Like if I were to tell a male barrista that, it could creep him out.
Devil Inside Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 That was cute. So did you guys end up going out? See, there are many things you men can do that women may not be able to pull off as easily. Like if I were to tell a male barrista that, it could creep him out. We dated for like four months. I think that women can totally get away with things like that. Especially if you're cute..a direct woman gets me every time.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 We dated for like four months. I think that women can totally get away with things like that. Especially if you're cute..a direct woman gets me every time. I think it would help if I've been going to there for a cuppa every other day and the barrista knows I'm not a weirdo or the wanted woman. Direct woman, huh? Would you go out with a woman who came up to you and asked you out in a coffee shop? No fanfare, not pickup. Just a direct "do you want to go out?"
Devil Inside Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I think it would help if I've been going to there for a cuppa every other day and the barrista knows I'm not a weirdo or the wanted woman. Direct woman, huh? Would you go out with a woman who came up to you and asked you out in a coffee shop? No fanfare, not pickup. Just a direct "do you want to go out?" Yes...so refreshing. Most of the time I don't use lines either...I think asking for what you want is best...within reason of course.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Yes...so refreshing. Most of the time I don't use lines either...I think asking for what you want is best...within reason of course. I must be doing something wrong somewhere. There was a guy I saw in a coffee shop. He was glancing at me so much I decided to walk up to him. I did the direct would-you-like-to-go-out line and he turned all shy and declined. What's with that?! So my guy friends told me I shouldn't have gone for direct.
Devil Inside Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I must be doing something wrong somewhere. There was a guy I saw in a coffee shop. He was glancing at me so much I decided to walk up to him. I did the direct would-you-like-to-go-out line and he turned all shy and declined. What's with that?! So my guy friends told me I shouldn't have gone for direct. Hmmmm...well maybe he just was too shy to act...or he wasn't interested. Was it like a fun cute hey let's go our...or like an intense bunny-boiling we should go out?
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Hmmmm...well maybe he just was too shy to act...or he wasn't interested. Was it like a fun cute hey let's go our...or like an intense bunny-boiling we should go out? I told him I thought he was cute and then asked him out. I probably should have chatted some before I asked. Men
Devil Inside Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I told him I thought he was cute and then asked him out. I probably should have chatted some before I asked. Men Maybe he had a GF. Either way, a little chat isn't a bad thing. Maybe after a chat you would realize you wouldn't want to ask him out. Like I said...being direct can come if as really desperate or really sexy...depends on how confident you are with it. Either way, don't beat yourself up....his loss.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Maybe he had a GF. Either way, a little chat isn't a bad thing. Maybe after a chat you would realize you wouldn't want to ask him out. Like I said...being direct can come if as really desperate or really sexy...depends on how confident you are with it. Either way, don't beat yourself up....his loss. Nah, he wasn't all that cute, just cute. I wanted to have fun with doing the asking. But like you said, his loss.
whichwayisup Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 1. Do guys stare at women they find attractive and instantly picture the women naked? Men picture most women naked and also picture themselves having sex with them too. It's just the way a guys mind works. Funny thing is (one of my male buddies told me this) it happens quickly, within the first 20 seconds.. 2. Are there any particular kind of stares that are tell-tale signs that the guys are doing the picturing? For example, hard stares or stares with a slight smile? Just know he's thinking it, or has thought it at some point.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Men picture most women naked and also picture themselves having sex with them too. It's just the way a guys mind works. Funny thing is (one of my male buddies told me this) it happens quickly, within the first 20 seconds.. Just know he's thinking it, or has thought it at some point. That's quite creepy, especially if it's some guy a woman can't even stand looking at! I bet if I were to ask whether women picturing men naked or having sex with them would creep men out, the answer would be no.
Devil Inside Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 That's quite creepy, especially if it's some guy a woman can't even stand looking at! I bet if I were to ask whether women picturing men naked or having sex with them would creep men out, the answer would be no. Depends who's picturing it.
boogieboy Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 Men picture most women naked and also picture themselves having sex with them too. It's just the way a guys mind works. Funny thing is (one of my male buddies told me this) it happens quickly, within the first 20 seconds.. . Not true at all. I know I dont picture any women naked, it would just distract my game. I never picture any women naked until Ive gotten them naked already. I scope out their bodies to see if they fit the general criteria, but thats it. Any guys I hang out with dont need to picture women naked because theyve been satisfied within the last week or two. After the first 50 women its all generally the same anyway. Theres nothing new or surprising to see, the only difference is the action.
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Depends who's picturing it. Really? That matters? Like it has to be someone men think attractive?
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Not true at all. I know I dont picture any women naked, it would just distract my game. I never picture any women naked until Ive gotten them naked already. I scope out their bodies to see if they fit the general criteria, but thats it. Any guys I hang out with dont need to picture women naked because theyve been satisfied within the last week or two. After the first 50 women its all generally the same anyway. Theres nothing new or surprising to see, the only difference is the action. Do guys stay satisfied for that long? I'm sure it's more the action but I thought men would still look and some would picture the women naked, even if they have an SO or a satisfying sex life?
Devil Inside Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 Really? That matters? Like it has to be someone men think attractive? I wouldn't be creeped out if an attractive woman was picturing us having sex in her mind. If my grandmother's friend had that thought...it would be a little creepy
Author MissHollywood Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 I wouldn't be creeped out if an attractive woman was picturing us having sex in her mind. If my grandmother's friend had that thought...it would be a little creepy I get what you mean. That's quite an example. LOL:lmao:
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