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Hey so you never answered me, how come you're asking? I ask, because not many women know about this inconvenient imagination us men have.

 

 

See post 19 above. I've answered it.

 

I didn't know that was only for the insiders. I thought it was quite well-known. :p

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See post 19 above. I've answered it.

 

I didn't know that was only for the insiders. I thought it was quite well-known. :p

 

Oh sorry, I missed it.

 

I'm living in Hong Kong right now. What disturbs me is that dirty look of mine doesn't get me disqualified with many girls I hit on. A lot of friends of mine I find don't have a "nice guy" look either, but get away with it.

 

So where you based?

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Some grown men have their hands in their pockets too. Now I know why. ;)

 

 

They're playing with their weannie.. oups.. toonie..:laugh:

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Oh sorry, I missed it.

 

I'm living in Hong Kong right now. What disturbs me is that dirty look of mine doesn't get me disqualified with many girls I hit on. A lot of friends of mine I find don't have a "nice guy" look either, but get away with it.

 

So where you based?

 

 

Did you mean get you disqualified or doesn't get you disqualified? Sounds like you were saying that the girls saw through your dirty look, but not your friends'.

 

We seriously might have crossed paths before then. :)

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They're playing with their weannie.. oups.. toonie..:laugh:

 

 

I really did think before that it was just a comfortable position to put their hands, like there was some support in the pocket, the way women put their hands in the pockets. :D

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Did you mean get you disqualified or doesn't get you disqualified? Sounds like you were saying that the girls saw through your dirty look, but not your friends'.

 

We seriously might have crossed paths before then. :)

 

Doesn't get me disqualified. But I think it's slightly different when you flip on a smile and then chat to someone in a friendly manner. Perve and confident is good. Perve and scared = stalker......

 

ha that would be funny if we've met someone before and don't know it. World is a small place nowdays.

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Doesn't get me disqualified. But I think it's slightly different when you flip on a smile and then chat to someone in a friendly manner. Perve and confident is good. Perve and scared = stalker......

 

ha that would be funny if we've met someone before and don't know it. World is a small place nowdays.

 

 

Then do that! Instead of only staring/gazing at the women.

 

I'm curious now. Worse, we're friends and don't know it! PM me when your account is able to do so. We can swap pointers on the scene there. :)

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Then do that! Instead of only staring/gazing at the women.

 

I'm curious now. Worse, we're friends and don't know it! PM me when your account is able to do so. We can swap pointers on the scene there. :)

 

haha, I do talk to girls. I was just being honest with my stories and giving examples since you asked.

 

You need to wait before PMs are enabled?

 

here's my blog, www.relationshipsinhongkong.blogspot.com I haven't written in a long time.

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1. I think many men picture women naked...whether they are looking at them or not.

 

2. Every guy has a different look on his face when he is off in that lad of imagination. If I want a woman to know that I like what I see I will avert her glance then look back and make eye contact with a small smile. It takes practice to not look creepy.

 

3. I do picture women naked, or even imagine having sex with them. However, it's not every woman I see, or all the time. I was just at a meeting and one of my colleagues had on a very tight blouse...and I was imaging what her breasts looked like...although it didn't take much imagination.

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haha, I do talk to girls. I was just being honest with my stories and giving examples since you asked.

 

You need to wait before PMs are enabled?

 

here's my blog, www.relationshipsinhongkong.blogspot.com I haven't written in a long time.

 

 

 

Interesting. I'll have a read. :)

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Interesting. I'll have a read. :)

 

Oldest posts first ;). Some stories are in order. That pic of me looks bad too, I thought it was funny though, maybe that's what the dirty look is like........

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That pic of me looks bad too,

 

 

 

No need for the disclaimer. :laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:

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So I have a question and a comment.

 

Do women undress men in their mind when they glance at them? Do they imagine having sex with them? I would imagine yes.

 

Oh, and Lizzie60, that avatar...I noticed it...lol

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So I have a question and a comment.

 

Do women undress men in their mind when they glance at them? Do they imagine having sex with them? I would imagine yes.

 

Oh, and Lizzie60, that avatar...I noticed it...lol :laugh:

 

No.. I don't think that MOST women glance .. I know I don't..

I also am quite sure that women never imagine having sex with them... or rarely.. I know I don't..

 

Huh? which avatar.. I changed about 4 times in the last 24 hrs..

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No.. I don't think that MOST women glance .. I know I don't..

I also am quite sure that women never imagine having sex with them... or rarely.. I know I don't..

 

Huh? which avatar.. I changed about 4 times in the last 24 hrs..

 

The one with the white top...not that I'm glancing or anything ;)

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The one with the white top...not that I'm glancing or anything ;)

 

 

Oh that one.. I have to say that I only wore this top twice.. and the first time I wore it. I was on vacation (2 years ago)... My friend and I were coming out of a restaurant.. a man and his wife were coming out at the same time.. he stopped right in front of me... his eyes wide opened.. a funny look in his face.. just starred at my breasts for a good minute.. didn't say a word.. then turned around and left.. I don't think his wife even noticed this.. That was strange.. :o

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Oh that one.. I have to say that I only wore this top twice.. and the first time I wore it. I was on vacation (2 years ago)... My friend and I were coming out of a restaurant.. a man and his wife were coming out at the same time.. he stopped right in front of me... his eyes wide opened.. a funny look in his face.. just starred at my breasts for a good minute.. didn't say a word.. then turned around and left.. I don't think his wife even noticed this.. That was strange.. :o

 

I laugh when I see other guys just stare. It's like a deer in headlights. Like I said I may glance. If you walked by with that on I would definitely glance.

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I laugh when I see other guys just stare. It's like a deer in headlights. Like I said I may glance. If you walked by with that on I would definitely glance.

 

Yes I think any guy would... unless they're gay... and even gays love to look at nice body parts.. male or female..

 

Men who say that they never ever look, glance, stare, whatever... as far as I'm concerned.. they're full of shyot..;)

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Yes I think any guy would... unless they're gay... and even gays love to look at nice body parts.. male or female..

 

Men who say that they never ever look, glance, stare, whatever... as far as I'm concerned.. they're full of shyot..;)

 

I agree. I think that if you're a guy and you're turned on...just fess to it. Heck, you ladies know what we are thinking anyways...it must be annoying to have a guy come over with some lame game...when you know what they want.

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1. I think many men picture women naked...whether they are looking at them or not.

 

That's something I don't understand. Do you mean they remember the women's looks and just call them up as and when?

 

2. Every guy has a different look on his face when he is off in that lad of imagination. If I want a woman to know that I like what I see I will avert her glance then look back and make eye contact with a small smile. It takes practice to not look creepy.

 

I've got that before but the glancing back wasn't followed with a smile. Just intense gaze. Do you know what that was about?

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Do women undress men in their mind when they glance at them? Do they imagine having sex with them? I would imagine yes.

 

 

 

No, women (or at least me) don't undress men in their minds. I certainly don't imagine having sex with them, or at least not at the same time as I take in their attractiveness or when I just see them.

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That's something I don't understand. Do you mean they remember the women's looks and just call them up as and when?

 

 

 

I've got that before but the glancing back wasn't followed with a smile. Just intense gaze. Do you know what that was about?

 

It's not like I sit around all day just bringing up images...but maybe after I am hanging out with an attractive female I may get an image in my head.

 

Intense gaze...a little creepy. I find a little smile is less intimidating and friendly...I think I would bust up if I tried to gaze. Maybe he was trying to hypnotize you...:laugh:

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I laugh when I see other guys just stare. It's like a deer in headlights. Like I said I may glance. If you walked by with that on I would definitely glance.

 

 

 

Even with a glance, women know. Men have no parallel vision. They think women don't know they look when men try to be subtle but really men aren't subtle at all. Women are good at picking up little actions from men.

 

The deer in the headlights. :laugh::laugh: I know that look! :lmao:

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Even with a glance, women know. Men have no parallel vision. They think women don't know they look when men try to be subtle but really men aren't subtle at all. Women are good at picking up little actions from men.

 

The deer in the headlights. :laugh::laugh: I know that look! :lmao:

 

I know you all know...you do powerful things to our weak male minds...please be kind.

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Even with a glance, women know. Men have no parallel vision. They think women don't know they look when men try to be subtle but really men aren't subtle at all. Women are good at picking up little actions from men.

 

The deer in the headlights. :laugh::laugh: I know that look! :lmao:

 

Women have better peripheral vision than men........

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