Author Spark1111 Posted August 10, 2009 Author Posted August 10, 2009 I thought this was funny. She had him followed. She gave him a 50th birthday party. She had a dvd with slides of his life. You know him in grade school, the military, blah blah blah, then the pics of him with ow. She had about 15-20 pics. Can you say deadly silence. Family, friends, ow & her H all together and speechless. I wish I had her for thought. PI several hundred dollars, party another few hundred dollars, the smack down from hell....priceless:D Brilliant! Absolutely brilliant! I took the high rode, most to set an example to my children and to spare them further pain. I wonder if I regret that now??? I think so. He is remorseful, taking all the right steps, trying so damn hard. She refused to take my phone calls extending the olive branch. I had only empathy toward her until that point. Ah well, its a small island. I'm bound to bump into her sooner or later.
MSUE Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 My last BF cheated on me w this girl I'll name Lauren...I found ouy new year's eve...I was supposed to meet him at his uncles house and he blew me off...I called him like 10 times thinking something happened to him...but that wasn't the case...he decided last minute to switch dates and lied to me about it saying he had to go to PA cause something happened to his lil brother and I found out the next day on myspace cause the bitch posted pictures of them kissing in their formal outfits at midnite she was stupid enough to have her place of work on her page and I went to the bank she worked at taking pictured w my phone and sending them to him cause he refused to pick up my calls after I busted him...I told him to pick up the phone or I was going right in to tell her who I was...we had been dating for a year now...a few weeks later I went to his hous to chat w him about what he had done and the breakup when he opened the door I saw her in the kitchen...she looked at me so confused and he ran out after me asking me to forgive him and that he was going to dump her right now and to come back to the hous in an hour...yea right...I walked up the stairs and looked at her ugly scarred face and told her enjoy my BF...he's all yours...better have your radadr on...she was so confused and had this retarded look
jasminetea Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 <snip> Hmmmmmm......... Anyway... because I got zippo information from him about the affair, I taught myself how to hack computers so I could hack his and get all the information I needed. I got more than I bargained for - I learnt that he'd been sleeping with not just one other woman but five. But the absolutely craziest thing I did was taking him back (Fortunately I did eventually get a grip of myself and left )
bentnotbroken Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 My last BF cheated on me w this girl I'll name Lauren...I found ouy new year's eve...I was supposed to meet him at his uncles house and he blew me off...I called him like 10 times thinking something happened to him...but that wasn't the case...he decided last minute to switch dates and lied to me about it saying he had to go to PA cause something happened to his lil brother and I found out the next day on myspace cause the bitch posted pictures of them kissing in their formal outfits at midnite she was stupid enough to have her place of work on her page and I went to the bank she worked at taking pictured w my phone and sending them to him cause he refused to pick up my calls after I busted him...I told him to pick up the phone or I was going right in to tell her who I was...we had been dating for a year now...a few weeks later I went to his hous to chat w him about what he had done and the breakup when he opened the door I saw her in the kitchen...she looked at me so confused and he ran out after me asking me to forgive him and that he was going to dump her right now and to come back to the hous in an hour...yea right...I walked up the stairs and looked at her ugly scarred face and told her enjoy my BF...he's all yours...better have your radadr on...she was so confused and had this retarded look Sounds like she didn't know he had a GF. Sounds like she was lied to also.
MSUE Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Sounds like she didn't know he had a GF. Sounds like she was lied to also. She had no clue whatsoever she's a bit dumb to be honest...he's such a player we still talk oddly enough and he's still with her and for a while we kept having sex...I couldn't resist plus technically he was my BF she had just come in the pix 2 weeks before new year's. One day I went out for a drink with one of our friends from our circle...nothing romantic at all jsut happened to be closeby in NYC to where he was...well he found out about it I guess"David must have said something...anyhow he started txting about wtf was I doing w "David" and how wrong that was blah blah blah so I came back to the town were we both lived and walked into the bar he was at ironically he was there with her while questioning me...and she still didn't figure it out I walked in his face couldn't be anymore red...he was not expecting it at all and he was livid...once again caught red handed...one of our friends had to walk out w me as I was more pissed than ever and the dumbass still didn't get it
2sure Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Craziest thing after D-Day?? I have a million of them, from D-Day onto about 2 years later. Some of them really funny...well to me. All reflect poorly on me I'm sure. Intially: Hired a PI to thoroughly research H , anyone I suspected and their spouses. It was expensive. In hindsight, unnecessary but at the time it made me feel less in the dark and more in control. To the OW who tipped the cards by stalking ME after H lost interest: Drove him, completely unsuspecting, to where she was working, handed her a stack of dirty pics she had previously sent my H along with her emails and records of the hundreds of hang up calls she made to my office and photos of her parked outside my home, my office, and my salon. Explained that I didnt care what she did in her free time, or with whom but that "I was the last person she wanted to F with." Got back in the car and explained to H that I was more than capable of cleaning up the mess he made of my life, but that it was going to be on my terms. We had only been married months and really didnt know each other that well. Ultimately these actions did nothing because they were of no consequence to HIM. He did it again. He has since realized that I'm not all smiles and fluff. To be honest, we love each more now than ever.
MSUE Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 It's beyond me how she didn't get it at all...but really that's a good match for him cause sh'es just dumb and will never catch him I on the other hand was way smarter and clever...he could never just get away w it again...today they have been together 3 years and just had a baby ans he still cheats on her with the whole town and she still has no clue...he would txt me in the middle of the night to come over cause his GF was at his parents and he hasn't had sex in ages...poor girl was pregnant...jeez what a jerk...I never did come over as I have been w my new BF for 2 years and have never cheated on him nor do I have any intentions...but seriously how can one be so stupid? how stupid is this girl?
jasminetea Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 but seriously how can one be so stupid? how stupid is this girl? Sorry, I think I must have misunderstood something - you said before that you'd continued to have sex with him after finishing it? Yes?
CM2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Hmmmmmm......... Anyway... because I got zippo information from him about the affair, I taught myself how to hack computers so I could hack his and get all the information I needed. I got more than I bargained for - I learnt that he'd been sleeping with not just one other woman but five. But the absolutely craziest thing I did was taking him back (Fortunately I did eventually get a grip of myself and left ) Shoot can u show/tell me how you hacked it...lol
bentnotbroken Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 She had no clue whatsoever she's a bit dumb to be honest...he's such a player we still talk oddly enough and he's still with her and for a while we kept having sex...I couldn't resist plus technically he was my BF she had just come in the pix 2 weeks before new year's. One day I went out for a drink with one of our friends from our circle...nothing romantic at all jsut happened to be closeby in NYC to where he was...well he found out about it I guess"David must have said something...anyhow he started txting about wtf was I doing w "David" and how wrong that was blah blah blah so I came back to the town were we both lived and walked into the bar he was at ironically he was there with her while questioning me...and she still didn't figure it out I walked in his face couldn't be anymore red...he was not expecting it at all and he was livid...once again caught red handed...one of our friends had to walk out w me as I was more pissed than ever and the dumbass still didn't get it I guess I don't get the harsh words used to describe her, him yes, her no. It seems you don't respect her for trusting him, isn't that what you did? You have called her ugly, dumb, stupid, scarred face with a retarded( a word that I detest)look on it. I'm sorry that doesn't speak well of you. I left out dumbass.
jasminetea Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Shoot can u show/tell me how you hacked it...lol *snigger* its actually not that difficult and there's so much information out there on the net that anyone with even just a little server side knowledge could figure it out
CM2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 *snigger* its actually not that difficult and there's so much information out there on the net that anyone with even just a little server side knowledge could figure it out Where did u go or did u have someone help you. I just need to know where to get started because a lot of sites that hack charge you. I just wanna get into this persons yahoo/facebook.
jasminetea Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Oooo gosh! I'm not sure I should really help you any further, its not something I can condone to just anyone despite doing it myself, I'm afraid.
datura_noir Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Craziest? Well, I wrote all over his private computer monitor with a sharpie-the words "Pr&*^%ck", "A%^$hole", Walking STD","Manslut", "Cheater". And then had to scrub it all off with steel wool before he arrived home from his "business trip". I added magnesium sulfate to his cocktail mixer, I also had all of the bills put in his name (they were all in my name), and charged some xxx movies on the cable acct-stupid of me, because after R, WE had to pay all of that back.....what a fool I was!
tinktronik Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 The craziest thing I did was made it MORE convenient for them. I could not stand to be at the house with him so I made excuses to be away knowing she was there the moment I left.
CM2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Oooo gosh! I'm not sure I should really help you any further, its not something I can condone to just anyone despite doing it myself, I'm afraid. Ok, just wanted to she what the heck she's doing and was she lying about somethings, but thanks anyway
MSUE Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Sorry, I think I must have misunderstood something - you said before that you'd continued to have sex with him after finishing it? Yes? yeap we did have sex for a while this was 3 years ago
jasminetea Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Dude, its illegal, I can't help someone commit a crime
jasminetea Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 yeap we did have sex for a while this was 3 years ago And you call her stupid? Seriously, your posts are really nasty about her. To be so aggressive about a complete innocent just doesn't make sense.
MSUE Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 I guess I don't get the harsh words used to describe her, him yes, her no. It seems you don't respect her for trusting him, isn't that what you did? You have called her ugly, dumb, stupid, scarred face with a retarded( a word that I detest)look on it. I'm sorry that doesn't speak well of you. I left out dumbass. I guess I did use harsh words...well this situation caused a lot of pain I never had my heart broken ever till him but all of those words harsh or not are an acurate description...how else can I say it? I guess I could say she's not the sharpest tool in the box...her face is sacrred everywhere from acne ...the word retarded plenty of people use it as a common expression some don't like it and that's fine but in my neck of the woods is used commonly usually to describe stupidity
bentnotbroken Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 I guess I did use harsh words...well this situation caused a lot of pain I never had my heart broken ever till him but all of those words harsh or not are an acurate description...how else can I say it? I guess I could say she's not the sharpest tool in the box...her face is sacrred everywhere from acne ...the word retarded plenty of people use it as a common expression some don't like it and that's fine but in my neck of the woods is used commonly usually to describe stupidity I do understand the hurt and pain, believe me. But she was equally as used and probably just as hurt. Her outside appearance or intellect should have nothing to do with her character. Even you say she didn't know, you did and continued a relationship with him. Intelligence doesn't equal self esteem. And the term retarded is used in my neck of the woods too, doesn't make it right. I have worked with special need kids, watching them struggle to do the simplest things, things we take for granted...let's just agree most people don't think before they speak. Or even believe that words have a power in them, JMO.
Lorenzo76 Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 I started an affair with the OM's wife. I felt he needed to be taught a lesson he would never forget.
Author Spark1111 Posted August 10, 2009 Author Posted August 10, 2009 I'm not sure posters, but does Lorenzo take the cake on this topic? How did that work for you, Lorenzo. Just curious.....
tami-chan Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Search for his story, spark. It was quite a soap opera. His story was the reason why I got hooked on this site....
GorillaTheater Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Lorenzo's story is an epic. A multi-media extravaganza of betrayal and revenge. Seriously, if this site gave out Academy Awards, Lorenzo would be the first person I'd nominate.
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