spywell Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 As something special for my girlfriend of 3 years we set a date and picked up two romance porn movies and the idea was to have sex the whole day. We acted out a lot of scenes and she wanted to watch the second move. So after 9 hours that was finished. The movie had a few scenes where they had a threesome 2w1m. She, being an explorative woman had experienced a women at a very young age and asked if it turned me on etc. Well yes it does and it turns her on as well. Eventually (two weeks later) she is wanting to have a threesome. I don't argue but really check and question everything. For the next three days I ask her many many questions about it and after every day her final answer was still yes. The next day she asked to be put on craigslist personals to find a woman to join us. So obediently I post an add and get some responses and as soon as I tell her how many responses I have received she has second thoughts. So I ask you, the reader if you have any insight, examples, or experience involving a threesome you have had. I declined asking the questions that she posed for now. I will bring them up shortly as readers stumble on to them. If you must have some idea then know that she is having cold feet due to jealousy.
torranceshipman Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 It'll probably be the kiss of death for your R - a fantasy is a WHOLE lot different from reality.
Hkizzle Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 Lol, wtf............ I had a threesome once, but with two random girls who were friends. I wasn't dating either of them and never dated them after. So there was no jealousy. In terms of a physical experience it's a must try once in a lifetime. If the girls know what they are doing you will never forget it the rest of your life. I also had sex with a girl once that had a threesome once. She was very sexually experienced and her boyfriend talked her into it, but half way through she walked out, couldn't do it. Her boyfriend actually just continued with the other girl, and they broke up soon after. I think many women that are in commited relationships think they will be able to do it, but once the thought of their boyfriend with another girl really gets in their head jealousy starts. She can't blame you at the moment because it was her idea, but the chances of her walking out if high from what you've said. Pity, I was about to say "you lucky bas****" till I saw the end of your post.
abd Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 I had a fairly tame threesome (MFF) one time in my life, and I don't think I'd do it again. I was in a long-term relationship (we had been dating about 2 years), and the other woman was a mutual acquaintance. We were all at a party, were drunk, and decided to go home and try it out. Was it fun? Absolutely. But it was also really awkward the next day, and the girlfriend and I decided that it wasn't going to happen again. That relationship ended for other reasons, but I wouldn't do it again if I were in a relationship. Also, I am a little concerned I may run into the other woman at some point in the future and it could be embarrassing. If I were single and somehow managed to pull it off with people I wouldn't see again? Sure, but that sounds like a porn fantasy, not reality.
MSUE Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 I'm in a commited relationship and truly I would not be able to do it...We are both satisfied with one another and have an amazing sex life...I can't stand the tought of my man even touching another woman and i don't think its a jealousy thing on my end I feel that what we have is beautiful and sacred and perfect just the way its is...the 2 of us... to me not to mention all my friends that have gone for it end up with serious relationship issues and an eventual breakup
Devil Inside Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 I had a threesome in college. However, I was not attached to either of the women. It was a fun, one-time, spontaneous, drunk kind of thing. It is actually a lot more awkward then it looks in the movies. I had a GF once that had an interest in exploring the option...but I got cold feet. The thought of her with anyone else really didn't make me feel good. Later she admitted how relieved she was I didn't want to. She was trying to excite me but starting feeling jealous by even the thought of it. You have to be a certain kind of couple to have one and not have it interfere with your relationship. Good luck.
Chrome Barracuda Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 Spywell your gonna loose your girlfriend if you go through with it. Dont do it. let sleeping dogs lie!
Author spywell Posted August 7, 2009 Author Posted August 7, 2009 I'm in a commited relationship and truly I would not be able to do it...We are both satisfied with one another and have an amazing sex life...I can't stand the tought of my man even touching another woman and i don't think its a jealousy thing on my end I feel that what we have is beautiful and sacred and perfect just the way its is...the 2 of us... to me not to mention all my friends that have gone for it end up with serious relationship issues and an eventual breakup These are a few of the things that worries her. -"We are both satisfied with one another and have an amazing sex life." -"can't stand the tought of my man even touching another woman" -"all my friends that have gone for it end up with serious relationship issues and an eventual breakup" Maybe she was teasing me since I asked her multiple times about sex with the other woman. She told me probably 5 times that she was encouraging it and that "I just cannot kiss the other woman" I found that odd and told her I was not really wanting to have sex with the other woman and we could make it that way. She said that the other woman would get mad or something and now "can't stand the tought of my man even touching another woman" Preston There's more reasons and an awkward ending that I will probably post tomorrow.
New Again Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 Maybe she was teasing me since I asked her multiple times about sex with the other woman. She told me probably 5 times that she was encouraging it and that "I just cannot kiss the other woman" I found that odd and told her I was not really wanting to have sex with the other woman and we could make it that way. She said that the other woman would get mad or something and now "can't stand the tought of my man even touching another woman" Preston There's more reasons and an awkward ending that I will probably post tomorrow. It sounds like she perceived your extreme interest as a desire to be involved in that scenario. Maybe she even thinks (or thought) that her involvement with other women was actually a key part of your attraction to her, so she felt pressured to live up to that sexual fantasy of yours? And yes, from what I know about threesomes, the other woman would probably get mad (or very simply wouldn't be willing to participate) if she didn't get any from you.
BUENG1 Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 These are a few of the things that worries her. -"We are both satisfied with one another and have an amazing sex life." -"can't stand the tought of my man even touching another woman" -"all my friends that have gone for it end up with serious relationship issues and an eventual breakup" Maybe she was teasing me since I asked her multiple times about sex with the other woman. She told me probably 5 times that she was encouraging it and that "I just cannot kiss the other woman" I found that odd and told her I was not really wanting to have sex with the other woman and we could make it that way. She said that the other woman would get mad or something and now "can't stand the tought of my man even touching another woman" Preston There's more reasons and an awkward ending that I will probably post tomorrow. I would just drop it, even if she flip flops again, its pretty obvious that this will end in disaster.
JohnP82 Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 Do it. I've had the opportunity once and turned it down thinking that it might hurt the relationship. Little did I know that the relationship was already messed up and we ended a few weeks later. As a result it's something that I will always regret not trying.
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