fillupthesky Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 and i'm kinda freaking out! lol i've been with him for about 9 months, and he recently went to seattle to visit freinds and take care of a legal matter. he left last week and will probably not be back until sept 1st. now, we get along well, we genuinely love and connect with each other...but i'm feeling so insecure while he's gone. i've spoken to him often since he's been gone, but nothing like when he's at home. i expected this, and i understand...what i'm having trouble with is managing my own insecurities. he's done nothing to make me feel this way, its coming from me. it doesn't help that i'm currently not working and have wayyy too much time to sit and think and worry. so what can i do? also, i let him in on my insecurity yesterday, and his voice hinted at some annoyance with me. so now i feel stupid. i don't want to be this clingy dependent girlfriend, but i've sort of become that. i guess my question is- how can i manage my insecurities and become a bit more independent in this relationship? i don't want my insecurity to drive him away, so what can i do to get him wondering about me a little bit (not like a mind game or anything) so that he'll forget that i got so needy that first week he was gone? thanks in advance
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