hoping2heal Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 Im excited. If it means this much to you then i hope that i get the same reaction. She already means the world to me, but to have more would be insane. Yeah it will really open the doorway to have an honest relationship with a lot of freedom, in the sense you can be yourself and communicate YOU to her. It's an exhausting mess to try and play all these hot and cold games in relationships, and you really do nothing more than tweak a bit at human behavior. But if you can open yourselves up to one another like this, you're going to open a candid line of communication and learn how to meet eachother's needs and really deepen the bond you two have with one another. Your love will grow so much deeper.
Author vertical Posted August 8, 2009 Author Posted August 8, 2009 Well thank you. I hope this cures every thing for me. A nice deep bond will be perfect and i believe she wants to be close and open. I just need to buck up and get it done now lol. Thankfully i have some time. I dont really want to do this on the phone, more of a one on one thing.
hoping2heal Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 Well thank you. I hope this cures every thing for me. A nice deep bond will be perfect and i believe she wants to be close and open. I just need to buck up and get it done now lol. Thankfully i have some time. I dont really want to do this on the phone, more of a one on one thing. Sure sure. You will be just fine . You will feel SO good afterwards.
bac Posted August 8, 2009 Posted August 8, 2009 I am a female and when I leave a man I exactly know why I do not want to date him anymore. I will never tell him the reason because he does not want to know that and he prefers to believe that it is random. Of course, I will also not say the reason because I do not want to hurt his feelings. I asked some guys, that I left, the reasons why their wifes and GFs left them. When I heard the reasons I really thought that they were strange and unreal. To summarize, it turned out that I left the same guys because of the same reasons.
Author vertical Posted August 10, 2009 Author Posted August 10, 2009 Well, she finally gets home and now i have a brand new problem. I was all prepared to open up to her, and i was excited that she was getting home. She lost her phone to her parents so the only way i was going to know if she was here or not was if she logged on to facebook. I had sent her some messages while she was away, one was replying to one that she had sent me before she left, and the other was saying "i cant wait to tell you some good news". But, she finally gets online today, and i await her message back to me... but i get nothing. She signs onto msn, and i expect her message to me, and i still get nothing. I start to think that she is avoiding me.. So i took a plundge and said "hey, how was your trip?" she replies "fun". Just a cold, one word answer. I reply "cool" as i dont ever mess around when i get these stupid answers. She then says "yeah. wbu?". I tell her how my weekend went and she said "oh, cool". And that was it. I manage to keep a conversation going but we are both sending one word answers way to much. Then the kicker, she says i have to go and i said "ok, well ill tttyl. I love you" and she replies with "k cya" and logs off. So, i know she might be busy, and i know something COULD have happened to her while she was on the trip that made her mad or something, but why couldnt she be more forward with it to me? I was all prepared to really open up for her, and then this happens. I dont get it.
Author vertical Posted August 10, 2009 Author Posted August 10, 2009 Nvm i got it figured out. Sorry.
Citizen Drawn Posted August 10, 2009 Posted August 10, 2009 Well, she finally gets home and now i have a brand new problem. I was all prepared to open up to her, and i was excited that she was getting home. She lost her phone to her parents so the only way i was going to know if she was here or not was if she logged on to facebook. I had sent her some messages while she was away, one was replying to one that she had sent me before she left, and the other was saying "i cant wait to tell you some good news". But, she finally gets online today, and i await her message back to me... but i get nothing. She signs onto msn, and i expect her message to me, and i still get nothing. I start to think that she is avoiding me.. So i took a plundge and said "hey, how was your trip?" she replies "fun". Just a cold, one word answer. I reply "cool" as i dont ever mess around when i get these stupid answers. She then says "yeah. wbu?". I tell her how my weekend went and she said "oh, cool". And that was it. I manage to keep a conversation going but we are both sending one word answers way to much. Then the kicker, she says i have to go and i said "ok, well ill tttyl. I love you" and she replies with "k cya" and logs off. So, i know she might be busy, and i know something COULD have happened to her while she was on the trip that made her mad or something, but why couldnt she be more forward with it to me? I was all prepared to really open up for her, and then this happens. I dont get it. She's not into you.
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