davidindallas Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 Well here is my story i was with my ex gf for over 3 years, but she broke up with almost 2 months ago saying i didnt have my life together and i relized it was true so ive been making the necessary changes in my life to become a better person. I thought she just used this as a way to call it quits because 3 days later she is dating some other dude who she was friends with so i felt horrible i felt like out time together meant nothing. I asked her for closure so i asked why didnt she just tell me she wanted to date other people and she said she didnt plan to date him that he was just their for her when she needed someone, i also asked if she still had feelings for me and she told me "yes i still love you with all my f--king heart but its just really hard for me to think like that because i dont wanna get hurt" and like anyone at first all i wanted was to get her back so i asked her once i make the changes i have to is she would be willing to start over fresh and just told me "im not gonna make any promises but im not saying it wont happen either". I honestly believe her but in my head i feel like she's just putting me in the sidelines in case it wont work out with her rebound.
Nedved Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 Sorry to hear your hurting!! She sounds like my ex and dose'nt seem to know what she wants. My ex was to friends with a guy that was always hanging out of her when we were together. i later found out when she broke up with me that she was now seeing him quite regular which led me to believe she broke up with me for him and your situation sounds very similar. She could very well be keeping you in her life in her life in case it dose'nt work out with this new guy and to be honest it was prob pre planned to break up with you and start seeing him. Don't let her tell you she loves you and dose'nt want to be hurt etc. She could easily get hurt by this new guy and she's being very selfish by keeping you hanging on. Go NC on her and disapear from her life. maybe it is a phase she's going through and she could very well still come back but you can't keep hanging on to girl that is doing whats best for her here. Believe me disapear from her life and see concentrate on yourself. its not easy but you gotta do it for now. its the only way.
Author davidindallas Posted August 7, 2009 Author Posted August 7, 2009 Yea your right the way im looking at it is screw her, im not conceded but im young and hansome and ill find someone better, so its her loss. Lifes too short to dwell over spelt milk. Just gotta go strict no contact i supppose.
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