leap83 Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 Hey guys, I don't know if I'm posting this in the wrong part of the forum. If I am, my apologies. I have a couple of questions specifically for men because I'm trying to understand a friend who's going through some emotional turmoil. So, any responses would be appreciated. 1. Hypothetically speaking, if you were in a long term relationship for about 7-8 years and you did not fall in love with that person until 2 years into the relationship, why would that be? And when you finally fell in love with her, would this love be superficial or deeply rooted? 2. If you were out of this 7-8 year relationship, which according to your standards was a mess (you kept breaking up, you knew right from the start that the girl is not right for you but you went along), but you loved this person, how long would it take you to get over them? (Btw, you broke up with her - you made a conscious decision to walk away.) 3. When would you be ready for a serious relationship and how do you get to that stage? (Keep in mind that your previous relationship was nothing short of disastrous; you were criticized constantly; promised things but those promises were broken, etc.) I'll get into more detail if you need more info. But I really need your point of view so any responses would be greatly appreciated and welcomed. Thank you.
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