conehead Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 Been 12 months since we've been linked romantically, but only 6 months since we've been official...and I feel he is less affectionate/romantic. I think the honeymoon phase is over. He even gets annoyed at me at times and rolls his eyes at me over minor things. Things definitely changed within the past 2 weeks for no real reason I can think of except perhaps the honeymoon phase is coming to an end. Is this ok? What do I do now so that things don't go downhill from here?
laRubiaBonita Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 perhaps the honeymoon phase is coming to an end. Is this ok? What do I do now so that things don't go downhill from here? ask him what the deal is, and if all else fails go on another honeymoon!
GorillaTheater Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 Conehead, I'm going to be blunt with you here. I've noted your threads in the past: "he won't tell you he loves you" when you want him to, yet "you love him but aren't IN love with him". You're peeved because he "won't get a full-body STD check" and considered breaking up with him because "he has a cold sore". I fail to see that you ever had a honeymoon period. In fact, you've seemed all along as though you've been looking for an excuse to bail out of the relationship. Just bail, already.
Crimson Tide Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 Perhaps it isn't working out the way you wanted it to. It's a sad thing. Have you talked to his about his behaviour lately? Have you, in any way feel annoyed by him too?
Sam Spade Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 I never had a 'honeymoon phase' in my current relationship and by now I'm convinced this is the way to go . I.e. instead of waiting and dreading for things to get worse, I'm enjoying them getting better all the time .
MSUE Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 you've started so many threads troughout tyhe past months and there's always an issue...so I have to agree w GT on this one...bail out
leap83 Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 I never had a 'honeymoon phase' in my current relationship and by now I'm convinced this is the way to go . I.e. instead of waiting and dreading for things to get worse, I'm enjoying them getting better all the time . LOOOL... Is that sarcasm or reality? conehead: I don't know about your situation (I haven't read any previous threads) but something is up for sure. Only he can tell you what that is.
carhill Posted August 7, 2009 Posted August 7, 2009 Things definitely changed within the past 2 weeks for no real reason I can think of except perhaps the honeymoon phase is coming to an end. Is this ok? What do I do now so that things don't go downhill from here? Have more sex. When winkie is happy, you can do no wrong Topically, IMO, when the 'butterflies' end, if there's no deeper, more elemental bond, get out, lest it become a convenient relationship; the 'Cheers' effect. Antithetically, as that bond broke down in our marriage, the petty things about my wife, for example her shoes tossed everywhere, became less and less annoying with each day. That's because the big thing, my love, was dying. She really didn't matter anymore so the behaviors couldn't affect me. Hope you figure it out
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