KS882 Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 I'm new, sorry if this is in the wrong place! I've been dating this guy for about a month now. We've been out on a few dates and it's been great. We're interested in the same things, always find things to talk about. He's interesting and I like him a lot. I'm quite shy and usually find it difficult keeping conversations going which doesn't seem to be a problem when I'm with him. And I think he's quite a shy guy too really. And now I'm wondering when the first kiss will happen. There's been plenty of times where it seems like he's going to kiss me but I think he's not confident enough to do it. I want to kiss him so badly but don't want to seem stupid and don't want to get it wrong (yeah, well aware I'm sounding like a 13 year old! Haha). Like last week we went to the cinema. He's resting his arm right over my side of the arm rest and I'm sensing he wants to hold my hand but not sure if he was waiting for me to hold his hand. Spent the whole time we were there wanting to move my hand to see if he'd hold it but didn't want to seem like a complete moron if he didn't, you know? Then we came out of the cinema and he sort of bent over till we were really close then STUPID me turns around and I start talking about my car???! Argh and by this point he's backed off and just asked me out again and said to give him a ring to let him know I got home safely etc. I do get the feeling (especially last week) that he would kiss me but then I get all stupid and start talking which sort of ruins it I guess. Anyway. I'm seeing him again tomorrow, we're going out for dinner. So just go for it and risk making myself look like an idiot? Or stop being a moron, stop talking for a few minutes and see if he kisses me? See, I think what if he just isn't interested, I kiss him and I just look stupid? But hmm... feeling like he wouldn't keep asking me out, ringing me etc. if there was nothing would he? *walks away feeling slightly silly*
utterer of lies Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 I'm new, sorry if this is in the wrong place! I've been dating this guy for about a month now. We've been out on a few dates and it's been great. We're interested in the same things, always find things to talk about. He's interesting and I like him a lot. I'm quite shy and usually find it difficult keeping conversations going which doesn't seem to be a problem when I'm with him. And I think he's quite a shy guy too really. And now I'm wondering when the first kiss will happen. There's been plenty of times where it seems like he's going to kiss me but I think he's not confident enough to do it. I want to kiss him so badly but don't want to seem stupid and don't want to get it wrong (yeah, well aware I'm sounding like a 13 year old! Haha). Like last week we went to the cinema. He's resting his arm right over my side of the arm rest and I'm sensing he wants to hold my hand but not sure if he was waiting for me to hold his hand. Spent the whole time we were there wanting to move my hand to see if he'd hold it but didn't want to seem like a complete moron if he didn't, you know? Then we came out of the cinema and he sort of bent over till we were really close then STUPID me turns around and I start talking about my car???! Argh and by this point he's backed off and just asked me out again and said to give him a ring to let him know I got home safely etc. I do get the feeling (especially last week) that he would kiss me but then I get all stupid and start talking which sort of ruins it I guess. Anyway. I'm seeing him again tomorrow, we're going out for dinner. So just go for it and risk making myself look like an idiot? Or stop being a moron, stop talking for a few minutes and see if he kisses me? See, I think what if he just isn't interested, I kiss him and I just look stupid? But hmm... feeling like he wouldn't keep asking me out, ringing me etc. if there was nothing would he? *walks away feeling slightly silly* You can either find out in 5 seconds, or waste hours upon hours of thinking about it.
boogieboy Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 From what you described, theres NO WAY IN HELL that he would refuse anything from you. Even if hes in the middle of of discussing the poverty in Ethiopia you could inturrupt him with a kiss on the lips. So you could hold his hand or whatever, he will reciprocate. If hes as interesting and fun as you say, I can only assume that YOURE the one who is not giving off the inviting body language. You probabnly could look him in the eyes and smile more, maybe get real close to his face and see if he kisses you, if not, just do it.
Author KS882 Posted August 6, 2009 Author Posted August 6, 2009 Ah exactly, you're right. What's the point wasting time worrying about it. Exactly, I won't know unless I try!
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