bolso4 Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 has that ever happened to you? Where you were so busy, or angry...or even attached with another (distracted).....that it took months for "that feeling" to sink in? Is it inevitable to feel it? (even if it takes months) or can you bypass it entirely? (I just broke up with my first bf, college sweetheart (3 years), and so far my job and new bf has made the pain bearable).
Soul Bear Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 you will have to deal with your emotions at some point... you can't hide them or run from them forever.. why did you try to replace him and find a new man so fast? I think your in for a wee shock down the line
miracle89 Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 HI there, I guess the answer that i could provide to your question would be that it all depends on your relationship and why it ended in the first place, if it's due to the fact that you've already fallen out of love with him months back, then no, you wouldn't really miss him because you've had the chance to (maybe no physically) but emotionally move on from him, but if it's due to some other reason, then most likely you will miss him down the track or even remenience on all the things that had been great in your relationship. The question lies within whether the "new guy" is just a distraction or rebound? The best way i guess to find the answer is to re evaluate your situation and spend some time with yourself and think because remember, you're not only hurting yourself but you could be hurting an innocent guy too. hope it helped
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