fiser360 Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 So during my 5 days of NC I have accomplished without her calling me or me calling her. I have been thinking. A lot. I had an epiphany, if you will, maybe I should not be so worried about how or when I am going to get back with my ex. Maybe what I need to do first is try to move on with myself. When my heart is in a better condition to love me, and others around me. Maybe it will help my ex realize that she loves me as well, only after I am loving myself. I don't know if this is on the right track whatsoever but it sounded like a great idea in my head. Any thoughts, suggestions, cheap-shots? Anyone?
Peanut9330 Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 Its a great idea the main point of NC is for you to have time to heal and better yourself but not for her but for you, and yes you shold not worry about when your gonna get back with her just focus on yourself and your life and if she comes back, and at that point u still want to be with her then take her back if not tell her in a nice way that you moved on.
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