Porn

[sxyNYCcpl]

In an effort to kill the George Sodini thread, I hereby suggest we start a good old, round and round we go again battle about the proper role of porn in committed relationships. Or in uncommitted ones. Or for single people. Or whatever.

 

You start.

[HsMomma]

In an effort to kill the George Sodini thread, I hereby suggest we start a good old, round and round we go again battle about the proper role of porn in committed relationships. Or in uncommitted ones. Or for single people. Or whatever.

 

You start.

 

Ehhhh....I'd rather do it than watch it.

[OpenBook]

The proper role of porn is to excite the viewers into having sex with each other, or themselves.

 

End of story.

 

<yawn>

[HsMomma]

The proper role of porn is to excite the viewers into having sex with each other, or themselves.

 

End of story.

 

<yawn>

 

And again, I refer you to my earlier post on this thread . Not my deal. I guess I've never really understood the lure of it. The one time I actually saw any (totally by accident, mind you), I laughed so hard, I snorted. The "plot" was hilarious, not even remotely sexy.

[Hkizzle]

And again, I refer you to my earlier post on this thread . Not my deal. I guess I've never really understood the lure of it. The one time I actually saw any (totally by accident, mind you), I laughed so hard, I snorted. The "plot" was hilarious, not even remotely sexy.

 

Way more men watch pron than women.

 

The role is to provide sexual variety for those that are single and not getting any, or for those in a relationship without really going out and cheating.

[Citizen Erased]

Hey, do you guys think I could do porn?

 

 

 

http://i28.tinypic.com/250igkx.jpg

 

Very Deliverance. Got a banjo?

[TaraMaiden]

....And don't forget the rocking chair......

[collegekid491]

And again, I refer you to my earlier post on this thread . Not my deal. I guess I've never really understood the lure of it. The one time I actually saw any (totally by accident, mind you), I laughed so hard, I snorted. The "plot" was hilarious, not even remotely sexy.

 

people watch porn for the plot?

[CarrieT]

people watch porn for the plot?

 

Some women do, yes. For many of us, it is the situational build-up that is more arousing and ultimately fulfilling than the close-up flesh shots.

[HsMomma]

Some women do, yes. For many of us, it is the situational build-up that is more arousing and ultimately fulfilling than the close-up flesh shots.

 

 

Exactly! So, when there IS no plot...well, need I say more?

[amymarieca]

Honestly, I don't see why people get offended when their partner watches porn. I don't see it as a big deal. Unless it is taking over their lives (for example, they are skipping work to watch porn, or watching porn instead of having sex) then I don't see what the problem is. Maybe the people who are offended by it are really just insecure about themselves.

[Crimson Tide]

Plot is very important for me to actually watch porn. If it was a full on porn with no plot, it boring for me. All you see is naked people having sex.

 

Where's the dirty talk? The innuendoes?

 

No plot, no fun!

[HsMomma]

Honestly, I don't see why people get offended when their partner watches porn. I don't see it as a big deal. Unless it is taking over their lives (for example, they are skipping work to watch porn, or watching porn instead of having sex) then I don't see what the problem is. Maybe the people who are offended by it are really just insecure about themselves.

 

I'm not offended by it at all - just don't really get the whole thing of it being such a huge turn-on. I'd really rather just light some candles, put on some good music & be with my husband.

[GorillaTheater]

Feh @ plots. I just want straight-to-anal footage. There's always a long-winded blowjob scene at the beginning of every porn, which I never understood. I fast-forward to the butt sex.

 

I know what you mean. I hate it when my fisting videos are cluttered with alot of other nonsense.

[HsMomma]

I know what you mean. I hate it when my fisting videos are cluttered with alot of other nonsense.

 

 

Gawd, you're twisted, GT - 's why I like you so!

[GorillaTheater]

Gawd, you're twisted, GT - 's why I like you so!

 

Best screen name (that I've seen) EVER: "fistingfordollars".

[HsMomma]

Best screen name (that I've seen) EVER: "fistingfordollars".

 

And again I say...

[Sam Spade]

It increases the size of my hm-hm, and the size of my cable bill (since I'm too lzay to get off the couch).

[The Collector]

I like a little scenario.

[c-riouz]

The proper role of porn is to excite the viewers into having sex with each other

 

So the partner of the viewer isn't good enough to excite? Then what's the point?

[Jersey Shortie]

Porn is there to fullfill men in a way that clearly real women can't. After all women can't remain 18 year old school girls forever. However, men will go their whole life wishing for just that. So they settle for real women and satsify themselves through porn. Where it makes men look like kings of the world in their minds. Although I think it makes both men and women look like drudges.

 

Anyway, men spend more time then ever in history viewing porn. Is this really female insecurity or male insecurity with their own sexuality? But it's not like men are going to stop viewing porn. That's truely what is important to them. Not real life women who actually care for them. Many women have learned that sometimes its just not worth even tryign any more. Hence the reason men stop getting sex and women stop trying to meet unrealistic ideals. It's a sad time when a woman can get more comfort from a cupcake but it's also true that in today's world, that's just the case. the more porn men watch, the more apathetic they are to women, the more hardcore porn becomes..and the cycle continues deepening each second. The boys growing up today will be so entrenched in porn they probably don't even know what a real woman's body should be and are riddles with unrealistic ideals about what they want a woman's to be.

[Vet]

Porn is there to fullfill men in a way that clearly real women can't. After all women can't remain 18 year old school girls forever. However, men will go their whole life wishing for just that. So they settle for real women and satsify themselves through porn. Where it makes men look like kings of the world in their minds. Although I think it makes both men and women look like drudges.

 

Anyway, men spend more time then ever in history viewing porn. Is this really female insecurity or male insecurity with their own sexuality? But it's not like men are going to stop viewing porn. That's truely what is important to them. Not real life women who actually care for them. Many women have learned that sometimes its just not worth even tryign any more. Hence the reason men stop getting sex and women stop trying to meet unrealistic ideals. It's a sad time when a woman can get more comfort from a cupcake but it's also true that in today's world, that's just the case. the more porn men watch, the more apathetic they are to women, the more hardcore porn becomes..and the cycle continues deepening each second. The boys growing up today will be so entrenched in porn they probably don't even know what a real woman's body should be and are riddles with unrealistic ideals about what they want a woman's to be.

 

And all women are frigid, insecure harpies that only use sex to assert their dominance over men and resent all pornography (or even looking at other women) as the catalyst for the tipping of their power.

 

Hyperbolic generalization is fun, but not very effective.

[missdependant]

We don't use porn on a regular basis while we're having sex.. we've used it a couple times, but neither of us really paid attention to it. For the most part it's something he uses privately and we generally keep it pretty separate from our intimate life together. It doesn't really have much of a role, if any in our relationship. It's not that either of us has some big aversion to it, we just haven't needed it. He watches it to jack off, which is his personal time. I don't care what he does with his personal time, as long as he isn't out cheating.

[Jersey Shortie]

And all women are frigid, insecure harpies that only use sex to assert their dominance over men and resent all pornography (or even looking at other women) as the catalyst for the tipping of their power.

 

Hyperbolic generalization is fun, but not very effective.

 

 

Has nothing to do with power. Everything to do with wanting a connection with a man that values you and doesn't feel the need to satisfy himself with any other image ready woman aviable when he has an urge and when your back is turned. And considering that most porn is made up of a limited age group and look in women, of course women get insecure! Because men are just showing what is really important to them.

[Vet]

Has nothing to do with power. Everything to do with wanting a connection with a man that values you and doesn't feel the need to satisfy himself with any other image ready woman aviable when he has an urge and when your back is turned. And considering that most porn is made up of a limited age group and look in women, of course women get insecure! Because men are just showing what is really important to them.

 

Yeah! There is no such thing as people that use moderation in their actions! I guess the fact that there is pornography of amateur couples who enjoy each other (and taping it), of women who are above 35 and have a realistic look, of written erotica, etc., etc., etc. doesn't really matter, right? It's so much easier to toss all of it and every man into one bucket, right? Makes the world a lot easier to deal with when everything's just black and white.