True2form Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Been out of the dating loop a while! Went out with my friend on friday and met her workmates. I got flirting with one of the guys all evening and whereas before he'd decided not to come out dancing after the pub he changed his mind (much to my glee!) Later that night while we were talking he started holding my hand which was really cute, then we kissed and at the end of the night he asked me to continue hanging out with him. I wasn't sure what he meant, but to be on the safe side I opted to go home with my best friend. He got my number and texted me that night before he went to sleep saying it was nice to meet me and he wished I'd gone to hang out with him. I got it the next day and replied being friendly. He messaged back to say he was going to a party that night so I replied wishing him a good time. I didn't hear back till monday morning where he told me how it had been and said he'd ended up in a tree in the middle of a wheat field at 7 am. I found this hilarious and thanked him for his text making me laugh. I haven't heard anything since. I saw that he commented on a video someone took of us and our friends on friday night that was up on facebook but he didn't add me and I kind of wrote him off as not interested. Then this afternoon he added me on facebook but hasn't directly said anything to me! -shrug- I dont know why I want to know so badly, I'm just curious to see what everyone thinks! He's really cute and I'm kind of interested haha yes you must think "If you're so neurotic he must have picked up on it and backed off" but I assure you I'm very subtle my neuroticism lives here and here only where it has free reign to scrutinize every detail!!! ho ho ho!
drutten Posted August 9, 2009 Posted August 9, 2009 Well, who knows what's going on there. What's clear is that you will know soon enough. It's true what they say - if a man is interested in you he won't usually keep it a secret. But maybe you can help me with my confusion. I shared a rental car to a professional conference with some people I had never met before. One of them was a gorgeous woman who almost immediately started flirting with me, giving me compliments and such. In the evening after dinner her onslaught continued, I was very flattered but it all went a bit fast, I didn't know much about her, so I backed off a bit and started talking to some other people. The rest of the conference we hung out a bit but she was more distant so I could never quite figure out what her intentions might have been. We hugged goodbye; it wasn't a real tight hug, though certainly not the sort of hug I would get from a random colleague. We then left in different directions, so I wasn't in the car with the others on the way back. Have I missed my opportunity? My plan now is to invite myself to her university to give a talk that can easily be arranged. But maybe all hope is lost? I have no idea what to do now. It would be nice to see a female perspective on this. Drutten
Thaddeus Posted August 9, 2009 Posted August 9, 2009 So far he's done all the contacting, and if I read this correctly you haven't taken any initiative to contact him yourself. He's very likely thinking that you're not interested. Want some answers? Take initiative! Ask him out!
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