MiseryBarsteward Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Hi, I'm new to these boards (well been reading on and off for 3 years) but I'm in a pickle now so I thought I'd turn to these boards for advice. Ok, I met a girl at a wedding and we instantly clicked, I have a strange sense of humour which she got, we talked about our lives etc .. and by the end of the 3rd night of knowing her we got drunk and ended up making out for 2 hours. The next day she tried to avoid me, being different to me, of course i was devastated but still managed to get her phone number and email address added her on facebook etc. A few days later i told her that i really liked her, but she told me the good old "im not looking for a boyfriend right now" as she said she just got out of a 4 year toxic relationship and "wants to enjoy her freedom" Anyhows i said that I understood, and we kept in contact by txt messaging. But whenever I asked to meet her or try to talk to her she always declined or avoided the question but still maintained she was single and not looking. A month passed then one day i get a message on facebook from her "boyfriend" telling me to go look elsewhere, this bombshell was a blessing in disguise i guess , as it gave the reason why she is acting like she is, but also it made me angry and i sent her a message that i wanted nothing more to do with her, deleted her off facebook etc, was that too harsh ? Now I'm just confused, why couldnt she tell me she had a boyfriend, and kept on insisting that she was single ? why play with my emotions ? Should I just forget her now ?
Chicago_Guy Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 There's nothing you can do expect forget it. This girl sounds like bad news. She just liked the attention you were giving her. Her "boyfriend" either doesn't know what she had been saying to you or is a douche himself if he's tolerating her misbehavior.
Author MiseryBarsteward Posted August 5, 2009 Author Posted August 5, 2009 her new boyfriend is no doubt a douche, he's twice her age and already has a girlfriend, and what she told me was that she was planning to show all these txt messages to the girlfriend that the cheating boyfriend has been sending her. Funnily enough as i was typing out the first thread, i got a txt message from her saying that "it's not how i think it is" and "it's complicated" and still wants to be friends Yeah I'm probaly going to forget about her for now, the other "relationship" that she is in looks doomed from the start
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