drivesmecrazy3 Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Basically im trying to win back a girl. Theres this girl that im basically crazy about, we used to date but there came a time where she felt that we should be with other people. Shes one of those girls that always likes to "chase" guys and obsess over them, but once it becomes onvious that they are into her she gets turned off immediately. We'll I knew this, but started liking her anyway, and then she turned away. Right afterwards, she started telling me lots of things that I really didnt wanna know. We ramained friends and talked, and she always asked me personal things like if i had been talking to/hooking up with any other people. She would also tell me how she was talking to/hooking up with other people. I met another girl, and we've been getting really physical/etc, she ive been talking to the original girl less. This made her very curious, and i told her what was happening. Now, EVERYDAY/NIGHT when i dont answer her back she asks if im with another girl or if im messing around. She told me so finds it funny how i was able to "move on so quickly" and its like "she was nothing to me." I mean honestly, Ive tried everything in the book to win this girl back, but nothing has worked. This is like the only route that i havent taken yet, which is make it appear that im messing around with other people constantly. Its obvious that shes upset and doesnt like whats going on, but why doesnt she open up to me about it or anything? its like I dont understand why she would act all jealous/angry at me if she didnt care, but at the same time she is NOT trying to stop it.... any thoughts?
Peanut9330 Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 Ask her what she wants form you, tell her you need to know if she wants to be with you becasue if she dosnet then u need to move on, tell her you cant continue to be in between and then see what she says and take it from there.
homebound Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 Basically im trying to win back a girl. Theres this girl that im basically crazy about, we used to date but there came a time where she felt that we should be with other people. Shes one of those girls that always likes to "chase" guys and obsess over them, but once it becomes onvious that they are into her she gets turned off immediately. We'll I knew this, but started liking her anyway, and then she turned away. Right afterwards, she started telling me lots of things that I really didnt wanna know. We ramained friends and talked, and she always asked me personal things like if i had been talking to/hooking up with any other people. She would also tell me how she was talking to/hooking up with other people. I met another girl, and we've been getting really physical/etc, she ive been talking to the original girl less. This made her very curious, and i told her what was happening. Now, EVERYDAY/NIGHT when i dont answer her back she asks if im with another girl or if im messing around. She told me so finds it funny how i was able to "move on so quickly" and its like "she was nothing to me." I mean honestly, Ive tried everything in the book to win this girl back, but nothing has worked. This is like the only route that i havent taken yet, which is make it appear that im messing around with other people constantly. Its obvious that shes upset and doesnt like whats going on, but why doesnt she open up to me about it or anything? its like I dont understand why she would act all jealous/angry at me if she didnt care, but at the same time she is NOT trying to stop it.... any thoughts? dude u gotta be straight up with this chick. Especially if ur getting physical with another girl. You have to decide if the juice is worth the sqeeze. Tell her she needs to make up her mind and that you have better things to do than play games with her
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