Frankie. Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 I hadn't seen my boyfriend in 13 months, I fly from Australia to England and we spend 5 terrific weeks together, like I'd never left. Got back to Australia 3 hours ago... I think my soul has actually shattered. Why did I get on the plane? I don't know how to cope... I didn't before, going to visit him was the only thing that kept me going. I have no idea how I'm ever going to be able to sleep without him. And seeing him again is, at the very least, 4 months away. I just feel like throwing up.
Bearandsue Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 AWWW i know that feeling.....(HUUUGGGS:love:) The only thing you can do now is look forward to when you will see him again and plan it out. Stay busy and relive your memories of the time you spent together. I hope you feel better soon.
4givrnt4gtr Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 I just feel like throwing up. uuuughhh i totally feel you on that one. My bf left last saturday and ive been feeling so ill til yesterday. I didnt know what it was, the nausea, the dizziness, the cranky mood. Then yesterday we spent all day talking, and by night i felt better. Funny thing is that he was telling me he felt sick as well and later at night he felt better too. This LDR business is not for the weak of stomach let me tell you, and if you have a weak stomach, it won't be when the whole thing is done haha. Its going to be ok. Do you guys have a set time when you'll reunite for good?? If you do, keep that thought in your mind. It'll do wonders for you and your tummy.
Just Call Me Reba Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Don't let it consume your entire thought processes. If you do it will eat you alive. It will be unbearable. My s/o and I used to be miserable when that last day came and the trip to the airport was sooooo drepressing. We even thought there was no way we could keep doing this to ourselves. Finally we didn't let ourselves think about it until the kiss and see you later at the airport....and then we made sure we had enough pics of our trip to post on our profiles...reliving memories. Sometimes we had movies. Then we would get busy with anything and everything we could. Also start planning your next trip...this will give you something to look forward to. Stay with positive...let the negative and being without him get pushed to the back of your thoughts. I agree LDR are not for the weak...you have to be strong, confident and open minded. Good luck, my best to you...Reba
Author Frankie. Posted August 5, 2009 Author Posted August 5, 2009 Except for a few hours dozing here and there I haven't had any sleep since Sunday, and that was mostly because we'd had a great day and decided where we eventually want to live, for a while anyway. Sorry, that post above sounds whiny... Anyway, it's mostly money stopping us from getting visas and hopping on planes, he's only got a part-time job at the moment, and I'm currently unemployed (looking for work) and at school full-time. Talked to him a few hours ago, we've agreed to set up a fund for visas and flights, makes us both feel better about things. We're gonna try to get together by New Year's, him probably come down here for a change. That visa gives him a year here and by then I should be able to go back to the UK. Just sucks that I can't get a hug, I basically lived with him for 4 months before I left the first time so I got used to it, and he and I are physical communicators. I guess I'll have to go back to chocoholism.
Island Girl Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 Sorry but I'd love to be in your shoes. And there are those that would love to be in mine. There are always those less fortunate and it helps tremendously if you focus on what you do have instead of what you don't.
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