gypsi Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Is it possible for someone to be madly in love you with you, but still leave you after you did something wrong? Even when you apologized a million and show them not only with words but with actions that you would change? Can they supress or force themselves not to be in love with you anymore? Or did they never love you that much at all, according to my friends when a person truly loves another person they would work on their relationship and not leave.
2sure Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 When a person is betrayed by someone they love - their feelings change. Some betrayals are unforgivable to the person that has been betrayed. Some things are deal breakers. It doesnt mean they didnt love you. It means that they no longer feel the same.
DustySaltus Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Is it possible for someone to be madly in love you with you, but still leave you after you did something wrong? Even when you apologized a million and show them not only with words but with actions that you would change? Can they supress or force themselves not to be in love with you anymore? Or did they never love you that much at all, according to my friends when a person truly loves another person they would work on their relationship and not leave. Sometimes the only way for someone to get over you is to force themselves to hate you. That's what I am going through right now. I was engaged and we were madly in love with each other but she had trust issues that would not go away. She transformed into a very vindictive person and thinks that she did absolutely nothing wrong...everything is hate filled. But outside the thick shell is a very weak interior, you just have to figure out whether or not you want to devote the time into mining that shell. You may not find the same person you loved anymore and it will just eat you alive.
MSUE Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 it depends on what you did wrong...can you elaboarete? if you broke my heart if you cheated if you lied or betrayed trust yea those are valid reasons to leave even if you love someone to no end...just because I love my BF death doesn't mean he can do whatever hewants cause I love him and won't leave him...c'mon...seriously...think about it
Author gypsi Posted August 5, 2009 Author Posted August 5, 2009 yes trust was broken, i had a drinking problem i would push everyone close to me away and hurt them, i have taken steps to fix that now i hurt her by treating her badly when i was drunk not every day or weekend maybe once a month or twice! When i was sober i treated her like gold...she said she is inlove with me and cant deal with the other side of me anymore so she left me....i dont blame her who can see a future with someone like me. Just hurts so much because i have changed and i know i have lost her forever i have never loved anyone so much.
Author gypsi Posted August 5, 2009 Author Posted August 5, 2009 **** NO!!! id never hit anyone in my life!!! I told her i hate her and broke up with her basically just push her away with WORDS! She says i have something called self fulling prophecy push people away because im scared they will leave me
2sure Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Well, I'm really glad for you (and her ) that you didnt hit her. That means that as broken hearted as you are right now, it will be easier for you to take away a life lesson from this. The love was there. Something changed and it hurts. You HAVE to take something beautiful out of each love relationship. You have to have learned something good.
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