sandy12345678993 Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Everyone says when you meet the right one, everything you've been through will be worth it. The right one will make all the difference. But how many people spend their whole lives searching and never find the right one? How many people out there die sad and alone?
Thornton Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Sadly I think a lot of people never find the right one, and settle for the wrong one in desperation. I also think a lot of people settle for "close enough" when they reach a certain age and haven't found exactly what they're looking for. Actually finding the right one is kind of rare I think. Of course, that also relies on you knowing what's right for you, which a lot of people don't - what you think is right for you isn't necessarily what is right for you, if you catch my drift. Too many people turn down something great because it doesn't exactly fit their preconceived idea of what they're looking for.
Thomas X Forever Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 It all depends how good you look. Unfortunately, I'm not kidding. This is the society we live in.
CaliGuy Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 I don't think anyone finds a PERFECT match. I think to some degree, we all will eventually settle. It's just, how much are you willing to sacrifice for love?
Author sandy12345678993 Posted August 5, 2009 Author Posted August 5, 2009 I believe that God or a higher power doesn't necessarily have our lives planned out. I think part of it is left to us to figure out. I believe He gives us opportunities and situations, and the people we meet, the chances we have, and out whole life is created by the decisions we make in those instances. Had we made a different decision 5 years ago, we might be in a different place in our life and have met different people. Everything is always connected.
Author sandy12345678993 Posted August 5, 2009 Author Posted August 5, 2009 Everything happens for a reason, but it's up to us to understand and accept that reason.
Beeotch Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Everyone says when you meet the right one, everything you've been through will be worth it. The right one will make all the difference. But how many people spend their whole lives searching and never find the right one? How many people out there die sad and alone? I have no clue... But I hate when people speak as if when you meet the "right person" it's problem solved, smooth sailing into the sunset after. No not really. All relationships require work and effort. I think that the difference that Mr/Miss Right make is that they are compatible with you and share the same feelings about the relationship so are willing to put the work in versus jump ship. I do not believe that the number of people who die sad and alone outweigh those who do not...
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