tenderheart8610 Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 I have been dating a guy for about a month and a half now, and I have a wedding to go to in a couple of weeks, and I would like to ask him to come as my date, but not sure if that is too soon, and I don't want to scare him away...but things are going extremely well with him, so for all i know he could say yes...what do you guys think?
Thornton Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 I think it would be ok. Is it a family wedding, full of aunties who'll pinch his cheeks and ask when he's marrying you? That might be a bit much. If it's a non-family wedding, or if your family are guaranteed not to scare him off, then ask him... if he doesn't want to go he'll decline your invitation.
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Eh. I say there's no harm in asking. I agree with Thornton, though - if it's a family wedding where there will be lots of family present and asking when you two are gonna get hitched...maybe not such a good idea. LOL But just a friend's wedding - sure. I had only just started dating my xbf when he asked me to go to a wedding with him several months in the future. No biggie.
boogieboy Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Hopefully he wont get spooked by thinking that you are impatient, and implying he should marry you right away.
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Hopefully he wont get spooked by thinking that you are impatient, and implying he should marry you right away. I don't understand how in the hell someone could get from point A (will you go to this wedding with me) to point Z (let's get married!). That's such silly logic that I hope the guy she's dating has more sense than that. My xbf is one of the most anti-marriage people on the planet. I agreed to go to the wedding with him BEFORE I knew how anti he was and I STILL didn't think, "Oh, I bet he wants to pick out china patterns!" C'mon.
bella16 Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 Me and my boyfriend were only dating for 2 months and he came to my cousins wedding with me. He was honored that I asked him to go and he met my entire family! That was the scariest bc I never really brought a bf around the family yet. He was the first and all went more than great! I'd say do it, why not!
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