Kitten.Pie Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 As the story goes, I like a guy. I've kind of been attracted to him for a while, but nothing happened because he had a girlfriend, whom happens to be a friend of mine. Well, they broke up sometime last month or something. Last friday I was at my friend's house and the guy was there. We spent the whole night flirting with each other like kids (throwing balls at each other, chasing, tickling, ect.). So the next day, Saturday, I was working and all I could do was think about him, smiling like an idiot. That night I had a few people over and I invited him. He came and we ended up making out the whole night. We agreed to go out and he left late, as I was going to sleep. My problem is, I haven't heard from him since. Should I try to get in touch with him, or wait and see if he will talk to me? I was thinking that if he was serious, he would have tried to get in touch. Is this wrong?
motive2002 Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 It's only been a few days. Nothing says you can't contact him if you want to. Maybe he's trying not to come off as too eager? Never know.
SoulSearch_CO Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 And I'm going to stick to "HJNTITY" if he doesn't contact you. If he was interested, he wouldn't be worried about "too eager." I think it was pretty obvious based on the flirting that you like him. The ONLY reason I could see that he may not contact you that has nothing to do with "HJNTITY" could be the friend connection with you and his ex. How close of friends are you with his ex?
lucy9216 Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 I agree with motive, it has only been a few days and he could be holding off so he doesent seem too eager. My sisters husbond did this after their first date, he hadn't called her for what she thought was a long time after their date so she decided to call him. They had a great conversation and he was actually out playing gold when she called him and he left his friends so he could continue talking with her. She asked him later why he took so long to call and he did say that he didn't want to come off as to eager or needy. This could be the case here, so I would wait another day if nothing then call him why not? you don't come off as being too eager either because it has been 4 days until you contacted him.
MHYH Posted August 5, 2009 Posted August 5, 2009 I agree with lucy 100%. I say go ahead and contact him, it seems to me like he is definately interested in you too, and as a guy myself I would be happy to get a text or call from a girl I'm interested in no matter how close it was from whatever day we last hung out. Go for it and good luck!
Author Kitten.Pie Posted August 6, 2009 Author Posted August 6, 2009 What is "HJNTITY"? I finally talked to him, and he is still hung up on his ex (my friend). I confessed to her about what we did and she was a bit upset but forgave me. She said she was done with him. It seems he was pretty much just leading me on. I'd rather he had just never shown interest in me instead of telling me how great we were going to be together and such, giving me false hope.
loveslife Posted August 6, 2009 Posted August 6, 2009 Aw Kitten.Pie, I'm so sorry. That's terrible to be led on. He was obviously messed up in the head. Should never have done that to you. Good news is, it didn't go on very long! Not that damage is not done, but he did not waste too much of your precious time. HJNTIY = he's just not that into you
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